I am a femme lesbian, and it seems like most femmes want to have kids. I don’t want kids, so am I less of a femme?
That is a great questions and a common misconception I think. Now I am a femme and I had a child, both my partner and I wanted to have a child together. I believe that it is your personal preference on whether or not you want to have children. There are many butch couples that have kids and then there are many straight couples that do not have children.
We have these labels of femme, butch, gay, straight and sometimes I think we put additional labels on of having kids or not. Just because you are a femme lesbian does not mean that you automatically want to have children, your biological clock tells you and so does your heart.
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Jess is from Arizona, is happily married, and is a proud mom of an adorable son. For more about her check out www.2moms2kids.com.