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	<title>Comments on: Are Christian Anti-Gay Group/s Aiding &amp; Abetting Lisa Miller&#8217;s Defiance of Court Order?</title>
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		<title>By: Zeke Krahlin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zeke Krahlin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Feb 2010 07:52:48 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Not any more.</p>
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		<title>By: Samphire</title>
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		<dc:creator>Samphire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 24 Jan 2010 06:56:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I appreciate the comment about Christians not being allowed to circumvent the law of the land.
We have terrible problems here in South Korea with people trying to circumvent the law against adultery. And I hear that gays and lesbians are flouting the civil laws passed against them in every muslim country. They are having same-sex affairs in flagrant breach of the law.
You are Soooo right to criticize the religious right for trying to circumvent the law. We should crack down hard on law-breakers everywhere.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I appreciate the comment about Christians not being allowed to circumvent the law of the land.<br />
We have terrible problems here in South Korea with people trying to circumvent the law against adultery. And I hear that gays and lesbians are flouting the civil laws passed against them in every muslim country. They are having same-sex affairs in flagrant breach of the law.<br />
You are Soooo right to criticize the religious right for trying to circumvent the law. We should crack down hard on law-breakers everywhere.</p>
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		<title>By: Sei</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sei</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 03:23:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Desiree,

Lisa Miller, in all of the information that has been released, has never dated a guy, let along was married before her relationship with Jenkins.  Please give a citation as searches regarding this do not show anything.  In fact, since leaving Jenkins, Miller has not had any relationships with anyone male or female that anyone can find or has reported.  Even IF- and I do mean IF- you have proof that Lisa Miller went back and forth- that is bisexuality incidentally- it changes absolutely nothing regarding this case.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Desiree,</p>
<p>Lisa Miller, in all of the information that has been released, has never dated a guy, let along was married before her relationship with Jenkins.  Please give a citation as searches regarding this do not show anything.  In fact, since leaving Jenkins, Miller has not had any relationships with anyone male or female that anyone can find or has reported.  Even IF- and I do mean IF- you have proof that Lisa Miller went back and forth- that is bisexuality incidentally- it changes absolutely nothing regarding this case.</p>
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		<title>By: Desiree</title>
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		<dc:creator>Desiree</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 18:18:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I keep hearing &quot;There is no such thing as ex-gay, just denial&quot; Oh? But ex-straight is perfectly OK? DO people know that Lisa was married to a man first? But only one switcharoo is the autentic one? There is a double standard here. How do we know she wasn&#039;t just in denial when she was a lesbian for a few years. Maybe she hated her ex so bad she swore off men for a time. And out of the 2 partners in the lesbian relationship, LISA was the one who wanted to have the traditional stay-at-home mom lifestyle, and carry the child in her womb. Oh wait but what you want to do with your womb isn&#039;t a part of sexuality and femininity any more, not another indicator of a history of straight tendencies. Once married a man, has a history of straight relationships, Wanted to bear a child from her own body, wanted to stay at home and raise her child, doesn&#039;t want a wife anymore. Yeah real gay. And her ex-gayness was the denial? Not the ex-straightness? C&#039;mon it was a fraction of her 40 years.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I keep hearing &#8220;There is no such thing as ex-gay, just denial&#8221; Oh? But ex-straight is perfectly OK? DO people know that Lisa was married to a man first? But only one switcharoo is the autentic one? There is a double standard here. How do we know she wasn&#8217;t just in denial when she was a lesbian for a few years. Maybe she hated her ex so bad she swore off men for a time. And out of the 2 partners in the lesbian relationship, LISA was the one who wanted to have the traditional stay-at-home mom lifestyle, and carry the child in her womb. Oh wait but what you want to do with your womb isn&#8217;t a part of sexuality and femininity any more, not another indicator of a history of straight tendencies. Once married a man, has a history of straight relationships, Wanted to bear a child from her own body, wanted to stay at home and raise her child, doesn&#8217;t want a wife anymore. Yeah real gay. And her ex-gayness was the denial? Not the ex-straightness? C&#8217;mon it was a fraction of her 40 years.</p>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 21:50:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great Eric, you finally asked a question even though its one that reflects just how much you still need to learn about the Us and matters of rights and our constitution.  Its my privelege to have this opportunity   Let me tell you why we need to change it and why it will change:  1. The Court First held that Gay people had a constitutional right to marry and that it is a basic fundemental right.
2. Then Came prop 8 which was funded by churches.  . The lying ads solicited people to vote for prop 8 to take away that right to marry. 3. We are fighting to get our right back.  So the change was made by the PROP 8 - they unconstitutionally - took away our rights that were fundemental and inherent.  
The very purpose of the Judicial system and its separation from state legislation is to perform a checks and balance.  So two couples who want to get married have  gone to court to ask for their rights BACK.  I hope you can conceptualize this and wrap your brain around it.  However in order to do so I suggest you try and free your mind from preconceived ideas and your homophobia.   Please come back and let me know how you have managed to deal with this reality.  I hope it is not making you too afraid.  Please follow the Prop 8 trial and let us know if you have heard anything that may be of value to you.   By the way this is not the best place to post regarding prop 8.  It is off topic here.   But feel free to go to the Prop 8 specific content on lezgetreal.com</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great Eric, you finally asked a question even though its one that reflects just how much you still need to learn about the Us and matters of rights and our constitution.  Its my privelege to have this opportunity   Let me tell you why we need to change it and why it will change:  1. The Court First held that Gay people had a constitutional right to marry and that it is a basic fundemental right.<br />
2. Then Came prop 8 which was funded by churches.  . The lying ads solicited people to vote for prop 8 to take away that right to marry. 3. We are fighting to get our right back.  So the change was made by the PROP 8 &#8211; they unconstitutionally &#8211; took away our rights that were fundemental and inherent.<br />
The very purpose of the Judicial system and its separation from state legislation is to perform a checks and balance.  So two couples who want to get married have  gone to court to ask for their rights BACK.  I hope you can conceptualize this and wrap your brain around it.  However in order to do so I suggest you try and free your mind from preconceived ideas and your homophobia.   Please come back and let me know how you have managed to deal with this reality.  I hope it is not making you too afraid.  Please follow the Prop 8 trial and let us know if you have heard anything that may be of value to you.   By the way this is not the best place to post regarding prop 8.  It is off topic here.   But feel free to go to the Prop 8 specific content on lezgetreal.com</p>
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		<title>By: eric</title>
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		<dc:creator>eric</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Jan 2010 19:59:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>All the &quot;gays&quot; who want the rule of law should stop protesting Prop 8.  It was ratified by law, so why try to change it?  I&#039;m assuming because you lost.  But that never seems to be good enough for the advancement of your &quot;movement&quot;.

So ask for law here, then go out and try to change laws you don&#039;t like.  Seems to be the norm</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All the &#8220;gays&#8221; who want the rule of law should stop protesting Prop 8.  It was ratified by law, so why try to change it?  I&#8217;m assuming because you lost.  But that never seems to be good enough for the advancement of your &#8220;movement&#8221;.</p>
<p>So ask for law here, then go out and try to change laws you don&#8217;t like.  Seems to be the norm</p>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 04:07:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Also if Janet would have moved, she would have lost the ability to use the VT court for Jursidiction. Do you want to be a lesbian in VA or VT? Begging for your parental rights????</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Also if Janet would have moved, she would have lost the ability to use the VT court for Jursidiction. Do you want to be a lesbian in VA or VT? Begging for your parental rights????</p>
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		<title>By: Sei</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sei</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 03:54:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Susiejock-

No, Lisa Miller did NOT want visitation at all.  Period.  End of sentence.  It was only after it became clear that she was losing the battle she came up with this idea of telling people she was willing to accept supervised visits.  Why not ask why Lisa Miller not move back to Vermont?  Oh, that is right, because so many of you supporting Ms Miller want it to sound so innocuous and innocent and wonderful, but really, you just don&#039;t want Miller to move back here where she might lose the influence of those who keep telling her that she&#039;s no longer lesbian.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Susiejock-</p>
<p>No, Lisa Miller did NOT want visitation at all.  Period.  End of sentence.  It was only after it became clear that she was losing the battle she came up with this idea of telling people she was willing to accept supervised visits.  Why not ask why Lisa Miller not move back to Vermont?  Oh, that is right, because so many of you supporting Ms Miller want it to sound so innocuous and innocent and wonderful, but really, you just don&#8217;t want Miller to move back here where she might lose the influence of those who keep telling her that she&#8217;s no longer lesbian.</p>
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		<title>By: susiejock</title>
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		<dc:creator>susiejock</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 06 Jan 2010 03:50:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If Jenkins loves this girl so much, why doesn’t she move to Virginia and accept 

supervised visits, which are what Miller wanted all along? </description>
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<p>supervised visits, which are what Miller wanted all along?</p>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 07:35:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Julie thats sweet</description>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Jan 2010 07:35:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>exactly</description>
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		<title>By: Melanie O Massengale</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie O Massengale</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2010 19:46:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;Are Christian Anti-Gay Group/s Aiding &amp; Abetting Lisa Miller’s Defiance of Court Order?...http://bit.ly/55YnpR&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
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		<title>By: lezzymom</title>
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		<dc:creator>lezzymom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2010 15:05:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;RT @SistersTalk: Are Christian Anti-Gay Group/s Aiding &amp; Abetting Lisa Miller’s Defiance of Court Order? -  http://bit.ly/4Ftucx&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2010 03:29:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LOL Melanie! I suppose that makes sense, since I&#039;ve got a ton of family and friends who are gay. It fits me well I guess... LOL! Much to my husbands relief! I&#039;m pretty sure he&#039;s happier with my hanging with gay guys than with the straight ones! I&#039;m happy to say my daughter is apparently growing up to be one too. She&#039;s in Junior High School - at a Catholic school at that! Her best friend for the past few years has been the one guy in her grade who finally &quot;came out&quot;. My daughters reaction was to look at him and say &quot;umm..yeah, I already knew that. Can you help me with this math problem?&quot;  I must be doing something right!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LOL Melanie! I suppose that makes sense, since I&#8217;ve got a ton of family and friends who are gay. It fits me well I guess&#8230; LOL! Much to my husbands relief! I&#8217;m pretty sure he&#8217;s happier with my hanging with gay guys than with the straight ones! I&#8217;m happy to say my daughter is apparently growing up to be one too. She&#8217;s in Junior High School &#8211; at a Catholic school at that! Her best friend for the past few years has been the one guy in her grade who finally &#8220;came out&#8221;. My daughters reaction was to look at him and say &#8220;umm..yeah, I already knew that. Can you help me with this math problem?&#8221;  I must be doing something right!</p>
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		<title>By: Eli Steffen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eli Steffen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2010 02:40:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;messed up RT @SistersTalk: Are Christian Anti-Gay Group/s Aiding &amp; Abetting Lisa Miller’s Defiance of Court Order? -  http://bit.ly/4Ftucx&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
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		<dc:creator>Twitted by Ameriqueer</dc:creator>
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		<title>By: Gaytriot Ameriqueer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gaytriot Ameriqueer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2010 01:55:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 19:56:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Its a sort of compliment.  It means you hang out with gay men.  It can also mean that you prefer to hang out with gay men.  The word FAG is an insult to gay people but it can be said BY a gay person without impunity.  Life self deprication jokes.  check out urbandictionary.com   diff meanings,</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Its a sort of compliment.  It means you hang out with gay men.  It can also mean that you prefer to hang out with gay men.  The word FAG is an insult to gay people but it can be said BY a gay person without impunity.  Life self deprication jokes.  check out urbandictionary.com   diff meanings,</p>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 19:51:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes Josh - you may wonder why I take the time - and some believe they should not engage these people because they will never change. The truth is I am not trying to change them or even have them see my point of view, what I am doing is baiting them to reveal their ignorance, inability to provide answers to their nonsensical lockstep &#039;talking-pointesque&#039; statements - it weakens their arguments and standing and shows the educaoted and reasonable American what we are up against. But they will fade as the next wave of a generation precludes it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes Josh &#8211; you may wonder why I take the time &#8211; and some believe they should not engage these people because they will never change. The truth is I am not trying to change them or even have them see my point of view, what I am doing is baiting them to reveal their ignorance, inability to provide answers to their nonsensical lockstep &#8216;talking-pointesque&#8217; statements &#8211; it weakens their arguments and standing and shows the educaoted and reasonable American what we are up against. But they will fade as the next wave of a generation precludes it.</p>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 19:44:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes and its indicative of the fact that Christians of this type would rather not separate Church and State and would rather have Bible followed as law, than US family law codes - untl it comes to the part that requires stoning for adultery...... because so many actually do commitr adultery.  As we all know.  That said, these guys should stop hiding behind the skirt of Jesus everytime they want to committ a crime  and it suits them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes and its indicative of the fact that Christians of this type would rather not separate Church and State and would rather have Bible followed as law, than US family law codes &#8211; untl it comes to the part that requires stoning for adultery&#8230;&#8230; because so many actually do commitr adultery.  As we all know.  That said, these guys should stop hiding behind the skirt of Jesus everytime they want to committ a crime  and it suits them.</p>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 19:39:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Evan, Precisely the point of these two posts including the one I wrote as a plea to Lisa.</description>
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		<title>By: Alex Horton</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alex Horton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 14:05:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;RT @SistersTalk: Are Christian Anti-Gay Group/s Aiding &amp; Abetting Lisa Miller’s Defiance of Court Order? -  http://bit.ly/4Ftucx&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">RT @SistersTalk: Are Christian Anti-Gay Group/s Aiding &amp; Abetting Lisa Miller’s Defiance of Court Order? &#8211;  <a href="http://bit.ly/4Ftucx" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/4Ftucx</a></span></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Sei</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sei</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 13:24:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Janet Jenkins was named Isabella&#039;s mother by virtue of the civil union.  Thus, this does not matter if adoption happened or not.  This is Vermont&#039;s law not Virginia&#039;s.</description>
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		<title>By: Josh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 08:58:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Melanie:  Thank you so much for your efforts to publicize this criminal activity and your attempts to provide sound logical persuasive and thoughtful responses to the thumpers and bigots who have a hard time understanding LEGAL concepts.  I read your comments on the Facebook pages for those supporting Lisa Miller and found them to be enlightening.  The &quot;religious&quot; right-wing fringe faction in this country is a danger to our US Constitutional rights.  Their fanatic beliefs have escalated to the level of supporting child abductors and using this despicable action of endangering a child to popularize their fascist views.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Melanie:  Thank you so much for your efforts to publicize this criminal activity and your attempts to provide sound logical persuasive and thoughtful responses to the thumpers and bigots who have a hard time understanding LEGAL concepts.  I read your comments on the Facebook pages for those supporting Lisa Miller and found them to be enlightening.  The &#8220;religious&#8221; right-wing fringe faction in this country is a danger to our US Constitutional rights.  Their fanatic beliefs have escalated to the level of supporting child abductors and using this despicable action of endangering a child to popularize their fascist views.</p>
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		<title>By: Josh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Josh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 08:40:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love the inadvertent typo by HOLMES who said &quot;I&#039;m so tired of people writing saying it&#039;s the christains (sic) that are the problem....&quot;   Yes, these types of people that claim to be Christians really are christains and &quot;Christans&quot; (sic) are rather tiresome.  Attempting to explain to someone what constitutes kidnapping, child endangerment or legal terms seems to be a futile exercise trying to reason with a group with-like Taliban thinking.   God is &quot;speaking&quot; to them, very laughable (and dangerous) excuse.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love the inadvertent typo by HOLMES who said &#8220;I&#8217;m so tired of people writing saying it&#8217;s the christains (sic) that are the problem&#8230;.&#8221;   Yes, these types of people that claim to be Christians really are christains and &#8220;Christans&#8221; (sic) are rather tiresome.  Attempting to explain to someone what constitutes kidnapping, child endangerment or legal terms seems to be a futile exercise trying to reason with a group with-like Taliban thinking.   God is &#8220;speaking&#8221; to them, very laughable (and dangerous) excuse.</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 07:57:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>And Melanie... t hanks for the welcome! 
I do have a question, if you don&#039;t mind answering it though. I have a really good guy friend who is gay. He always calls me a Fag hag. I admit, I&#039;m too embarrassed to actually ask what that means. Can you clue me in?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>And Melanie&#8230; t hanks for the welcome!<br />
I do have a question, if you don&#8217;t mind answering it though. I have a really good guy friend who is gay. He always calls me a Fag hag. I admit, I&#8217;m too embarrassed to actually ask what that means. Can you clue me in?</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 07:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Paula and Melanie - LOL! Don&#039;t forget us LOGICAL and SANE straight people here! I just bought my husband a really nice color printer for Christmas... need some help with those posters??

The real fact about this is NOT that it is Gay/straight issue. The argument truly is religious belief vs. Law. For some reason, plenty of people, including Lisa Miller, seem to think they are ABOVE THE LAW because of their religious beliefs. This is NOT TRUE. If it was true, anyone could do anything and get away with it as long as they say &quot;Its part of my religion&quot;. 

On the plus side... it is nice to see SOME &quot;religious&quot; people have understood God&#039;s real message about loving their fellow man and women. I know PLENTY of people who are religious who just don&#039;t care if someone is gay or not! They just love them and accept them the way they are! I just wish the rest of the religious population actually read the bible they keep thumping! Some day they might actually GET Jesus&#039;s message!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Paula and Melanie &#8211; LOL! Don&#8217;t forget us LOGICAL and SANE straight people here! I just bought my husband a really nice color printer for Christmas&#8230; need some help with those posters??</p>
<p>The real fact about this is NOT that it is Gay/straight issue. The argument truly is religious belief vs. Law. For some reason, plenty of people, including Lisa Miller, seem to think they are ABOVE THE LAW because of their religious beliefs. This is NOT TRUE. If it was true, anyone could do anything and get away with it as long as they say &#8220;Its part of my religion&#8221;. </p>
<p>On the plus side&#8230; it is nice to see SOME &#8220;religious&#8221; people have understood God&#8217;s real message about loving their fellow man and women. I know PLENTY of people who are religious who just don&#8217;t care if someone is gay or not! They just love them and accept them the way they are! I just wish the rest of the religious population actually read the bible they keep thumping! Some day they might actually GET Jesus&#8217;s message!</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 07:26:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I get SO tired of having to explain the law to people who do NOT pay attention! 

Tammy - I will try again. Whether you like it or not, a child that is born into a legal union is considered the LEGAL child of both parents in the union. It doesn&#039;t matter how the child came to be, through natural conception, artificial insemination, adoption or the woman screwing around with another guy. There is PLENTY of legal precedent for this. Lisa and Janet were in a legal union. Therefore they are the duel parents of the child. Janet Jenkins didn&#039;t NEED to adopt her. Just like a man who is married to a woman who gets artificial insemination doesn&#039;t need to adopt the child. Its his. Period. Case closed.

As for &quot;but Janet didn&#039;t see the child&quot; or any other argument, it doesn&#039;t legally matter. Just ask a parent who has gone through a divorce and deals with custody issues!! I have seen plenty of men who wanted to just walk away and not pay child support.... it doesn&#039;t work that way. Not to mention most of the crap you just said about how the child was treated has already been proven to be NOT TRUE. AS IN - LISA LIED. As for what may or may not have happened in the relationship... ever been to divorce court??? I can tell you first, most of THAT is lies as well and second, it doesn&#039;t matter. Actually, Lisa even got child support. Lisa&#039;s sob story had never held up when examined and she keeps changing her story. All of these &quot;allegations&quot; have been proven completely unfounded.

As for the comparison with the Goldmans, it is EXACTLY true. Everyone is using the same arguments  to support a Felon as Sean Goldman&#039;s grandparents did. Neither hold up to law. Sorry. Fact is Fact.

You state the Gods law should be above the countries law. Ok, so which &quot;God&#039;s&quot; law are you talking about? Lets see, I suppose we COULD have you dress in a burka... you&#039;d probably like it. Oh yes, you&#039;d love the part not having any right as a female to walk out of your house with out a male, or the fact you can&#039;t speak in public to anyone who is not related to you! How about the law that says you can&#039;t drive, choose your own husband or allows you to be given away in marriage at age 8?

Oh, or are you saying that if you follow YOUR religious &quot;beliefs&quot; the law should roll out the red carpet and bow down to you? I know LOTS of Satanists who would LOVE that!!! Did you know its part of THEIR religious beliefs to kill babies on their alters? Nice to know you support that idea. Or that certain groups of Mormons are perfectly OK with marrying their 12 year old daughters to some old man they have never met? Glad your ok with that one too. 

I know you hate it, but guess what? This country was founded on religious freedom. That means that one religion can not dictate &quot;beliefs&quot; to another one or over another one. Don&#039;t like that? Rather follow  &quot;God&#039;s&quot; law... whatever your interpretation of that is... than the Constitution and the laws set down by it? Please go join your brothers and sisters of the Taliban in the middle east. While you live in this country, you have to follow our laws. Don&#039;t like it? Please leave before we have to pay for you to be put in the prison system!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I get SO tired of having to explain the law to people who do NOT pay attention! </p>
<p>Tammy &#8211; I will try again. Whether you like it or not, a child that is born into a legal union is considered the LEGAL child of both parents in the union. It doesn&#8217;t matter how the child came to be, through natural conception, artificial insemination, adoption or the woman screwing around with another guy. There is PLENTY of legal precedent for this. Lisa and Janet were in a legal union. Therefore they are the duel parents of the child. Janet Jenkins didn&#8217;t NEED to adopt her. Just like a man who is married to a woman who gets artificial insemination doesn&#8217;t need to adopt the child. Its his. Period. Case closed.</p>
<p>As for &#8220;but Janet didn&#8217;t see the child&#8221; or any other argument, it doesn&#8217;t legally matter. Just ask a parent who has gone through a divorce and deals with custody issues!! I have seen plenty of men who wanted to just walk away and not pay child support&#8230;. it doesn&#8217;t work that way. Not to mention most of the crap you just said about how the child was treated has already been proven to be NOT TRUE. AS IN &#8211; LISA LIED. As for what may or may not have happened in the relationship&#8230; ever been to divorce court??? I can tell you first, most of THAT is lies as well and second, it doesn&#8217;t matter. Actually, Lisa even got child support. Lisa&#8217;s sob story had never held up when examined and she keeps changing her story. All of these &#8220;allegations&#8221; have been proven completely unfounded.</p>
<p>As for the comparison with the Goldmans, it is EXACTLY true. Everyone is using the same arguments  to support a Felon as Sean Goldman&#8217;s grandparents did. Neither hold up to law. Sorry. Fact is Fact.</p>
<p>You state the Gods law should be above the countries law. Ok, so which &#8220;God&#8217;s&#8221; law are you talking about? Lets see, I suppose we COULD have you dress in a burka&#8230; you&#8217;d probably like it. Oh yes, you&#8217;d love the part not having any right as a female to walk out of your house with out a male, or the fact you can&#8217;t speak in public to anyone who is not related to you! How about the law that says you can&#8217;t drive, choose your own husband or allows you to be given away in marriage at age 8?</p>
<p>Oh, or are you saying that if you follow YOUR religious &#8220;beliefs&#8221; the law should roll out the red carpet and bow down to you? I know LOTS of Satanists who would LOVE that!!! Did you know its part of THEIR religious beliefs to kill babies on their alters? Nice to know you support that idea. Or that certain groups of Mormons are perfectly OK with marrying their 12 year old daughters to some old man they have never met? Glad your ok with that one too. </p>
<p>I know you hate it, but guess what? This country was founded on religious freedom. That means that one religion can not dictate &#8220;beliefs&#8221; to another one or over another one. Don&#8217;t like that? Rather follow  &#8220;God&#8217;s&#8221; law&#8230; whatever your interpretation of that is&#8230; than the Constitution and the laws set down by it? Please go join your brothers and sisters of the Taliban in the middle east. While you live in this country, you have to follow our laws. Don&#8217;t like it? Please leave before we have to pay for you to be put in the prison system!</p>
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		<title>By: Tammy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tammy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 06:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To Amy
You heard right.  Janet never wanted to adopt Isabella and it is customary for lesbians to adopt the non-biological child.  It was not because their relationship was great and Janet thought it would last forever either because it was not very good, way before Isabella was conceived.  The judge ruled Janet a parent, unconstitutional, and that is the only way she became a parent.  Janet was never consistent with her visits before all this happened and nor did she send gifts, cards or telephone, even though she had the right to.  I also know that when janet taunted Isabella on one visit that she was going to be living with Janet that Isabella was set off in a very angry mood.  She told me she didn&#039;t want to live with Janet.  Janet also lied to her, telling her that she was the real biological mom, even though the pictures show Lisa.  And then, on the first overnight visit in years, Janet crawled in the bathtub with this little girl she barely knew.  Lisa truly loves Izzy and knows the dangers of Janet&#039;s lifestyle (mental illness, irresponsibility, pronography all over).   Too many people like Melanie think they know everything but must realize they do not. She is only pushing her agenda, her lifestyle, and demeaning others.  And as for Christians, we ought to obey God rather than men. THis is in the Bible and we are to live according to the word of God, not man (our laws in our country were based on the word of God.)  I know nothing of Lisa&#039;s whereabouts, she never spoke of her connections, nor her plans, so I believe a trail would be hard to follow.  And remember, God hid Jesus in Egypt until Herod died, He can do the same for Isabella.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To Amy<br />
You heard right.  Janet never wanted to adopt Isabella and it is customary for lesbians to adopt the non-biological child.  It was not because their relationship was great and Janet thought it would last forever either because it was not very good, way before Isabella was conceived.  The judge ruled Janet a parent, unconstitutional, and that is the only way she became a parent.  Janet was never consistent with her visits before all this happened and nor did she send gifts, cards or telephone, even though she had the right to.  I also know that when janet taunted Isabella on one visit that she was going to be living with Janet that Isabella was set off in a very angry mood.  She told me she didn&#8217;t want to live with Janet.  Janet also lied to her, telling her that she was the real biological mom, even though the pictures show Lisa.  And then, on the first overnight visit in years, Janet crawled in the bathtub with this little girl she barely knew.  Lisa truly loves Izzy and knows the dangers of Janet&#8217;s lifestyle (mental illness, irresponsibility, pronography all over).   Too many people like Melanie think they know everything but must realize they do not. She is only pushing her agenda, her lifestyle, and demeaning others.  And as for Christians, we ought to obey God rather than men. THis is in the Bible and we are to live according to the word of God, not man (our laws in our country were based on the word of God.)  I know nothing of Lisa&#8217;s whereabouts, she never spoke of her connections, nor her plans, so I believe a trail would be hard to follow.  And remember, God hid Jesus in Egypt until Herod died, He can do the same for Isabella.</p>
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 05:56:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok, I found an answer to the adoption question - apparently Jenkins maintains it was never discussed (which leads me to believe it is legally permissible in Vermont http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/01/30/AR2007013001316_5.html?sid=ST2010010101465).  This is obviously a problem -  even if they had stayed together and Lisa had died, Jenkins would not have been considered next of kin for custodial purposes.

Having said that, Lisa Miller is on crack if she thinks anybody buys her theory that Isabella and Jenkins &quot;had a deep friendship&quot; instead of a mother-daughter bond.  I have some great friends, but I wouldn&#039;t let them pay for my fertility treatments, pay me child support or GIVE MY CHILD THEIR LAST NAME.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok, I found an answer to the adoption question &#8211; apparently Jenkins maintains it was never discussed (which leads me to believe it is legally permissible in Vermont <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/01/30/AR2007013001316_5.html?sid=ST2010010101465" rel="nofollow">http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2007/01/30/AR2007013001316_5.html?sid=ST2010010101465</a>).  This is obviously a problem &#8211;  even if they had stayed together and Lisa had died, Jenkins would not have been considered next of kin for custodial purposes.</p>
<p>Having said that, Lisa Miller is on crack if she thinks anybody buys her theory that Isabella and Jenkins &#8220;had a deep friendship&#8221; instead of a mother-daughter bond.  I have some great friends, but I wouldn&#8217;t let them pay for my fertility treatments, pay me child support or GIVE MY CHILD THEIR LAST NAME.</p>
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		<title>By: Amy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 05:33:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>In response to Julia - your comparison of this case to Sean Goldman&#039;s situation is flawed because the family in Brazil was no longer legal or biological next-of-kin after Sean&#039;s mother passed away.  Miller is the biological and legal parent of this child.   Custody law in this country is incredibly flawed and needs to be modified to deal with current day reproductive and  social considerations.

While it seems incredibly obvious that Isabella&#039;s conception was planned jointly by Miller and Jenkins with the intention to co-parent, I do not believe it is in the child&#039;s interest to remove her from the custody of the only mother she knows (however I fully support Jenkins&#039; right to visitation with the child).   I read that Jenkins did not try to adopt Isabella, my question is - would she have been allowed to?  Does anyone know if Vermont law allows this?  This whole case is incredibly sad and I hope the resolution brings as much peace as possible to all parties involved (not likely, I know).  I do respect Lisa Miller&#039;s right to change her lifestyle and sexual orientation as she sees fit - but you can&#039;t just remove another parent&#039;s rights to a child.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In response to Julia &#8211; your comparison of this case to Sean Goldman&#8217;s situation is flawed because the family in Brazil was no longer legal or biological next-of-kin after Sean&#8217;s mother passed away.  Miller is the biological and legal parent of this child.   Custody law in this country is incredibly flawed and needs to be modified to deal with current day reproductive and  social considerations.</p>
<p>While it seems incredibly obvious that Isabella&#8217;s conception was planned jointly by Miller and Jenkins with the intention to co-parent, I do not believe it is in the child&#8217;s interest to remove her from the custody of the only mother she knows (however I fully support Jenkins&#8217; right to visitation with the child).   I read that Jenkins did not try to adopt Isabella, my question is &#8211; would she have been allowed to?  Does anyone know if Vermont law allows this?  This whole case is incredibly sad and I hope the resolution brings as much peace as possible to all parties involved (not likely, I know).  I do respect Lisa Miller&#8217;s right to change her lifestyle and sexual orientation as she sees fit &#8211; but you can&#8217;t just remove another parent&#8217;s rights to a child.</p>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 03:40:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay notice how everything is evryone else&#039;s fault?  Never takes responsibility for her part in anything - the Psych ward made her gay - lol -</description>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 03:39:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Okay here is a doozy for you ERIC and might I say the proof of the pussing is in the eating: Here is an interview dated October 2008 which you can find on the internetLifeSiteNews:   Question &quot;Can you tell me a little bit about how you began in this relationship with Janet Jenkins?
Lisa
Miller: I had actually identified myself as a lesbian a couple of years before meeting Janet, and it was through a process – I was hospitalized 14 years ago for an alcohol addiction and it was when I was in the hospital the first time for that which was in February of 1994 that I had a failed marriage and I had also tried to commit suicide and that was how I got a trip to the hospital.  I tried to commit suicide and I was in ICU actually for 5 days – it was a miracle that I was alive.  I was in a regular med unit for 2 days and then in the state of Virginia you go to the psych ward if you try to take your life.  It’s a state rule. 

So, it was when I was in the psych ward – you get put through evaluations, group therapy, individual therapy and it was through this process of them trying to figure out what was wrong with me that they said, “Well, we don’t really know but we really think that you are probably a lesbian and you are having problems with coming out issues.”  

They actually put that as my treatment plan and I had to meet with my family before they would release me from the hospital to explore this issue.  So, that was the first time that I had really explored this issue.  It was in the hospital, with my parents, my extended family and also my husband at the time, even though we were separated, and soon after that we parted ways and we got a divorce.  So, back in 1994, was the first time that I really self-identified myself as a lesbian.

LifeSiteNews: What led you to attempt suicide?

Miller: What led me to that was – from the age of 7, my parents had divorced and I had started taking Speed.  I didn’t know that that was what it was at the time because you could get it over the counter basically.  Through a serious of addictions from the time I was 7, up until the time I met my husband, I had never had alcohol.  

When I met my husband, he introduced me to alcohol and mixing that with some pills that I was taking and I had food addictions – I guess, it really did depress me and, at that time, I just felt that nothing else was going to get better and I was having marital problems with my husband at the time and I just decided that I wanted to end my life...  &quot;
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  Okay who may be the one not fit to take care of a child? Just like the judge said the parent that in her fervor failed to adhere to a child visitation order.   I think we can see who the crazy one is - on Miller&#039;s admission. No one in their right mond would run from the feds.   So Eric you say why bring religion into and let me tell you the one who did - LISA Miller herlsef, because she is spinning the line that JESUS saved her from the carziness she is confessing to in the interview.   Now I dont believe that if you clap your hands and say Hallelejuh that you can save yourslef from doing bad shit like this again.   I think this interview shows that child to be at grave risk as long as Lisa is on the run from the law.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Okay here is a doozy for you ERIC and might I say the proof of the pussing is in the eating: Here is an interview dated October 2008 which you can find on the internetLifeSiteNews:   Question &#8220;Can you tell me a little bit about how you began in this relationship with Janet Jenkins?<br />
Lisa<br />
Miller: I had actually identified myself as a lesbian a couple of years before meeting Janet, and it was through a process – I was hospitalized 14 years ago for an alcohol addiction and it was when I was in the hospital the first time for that which was in February of 1994 that I had a failed marriage and I had also tried to commit suicide and that was how I got a trip to the hospital.  I tried to commit suicide and I was in ICU actually for 5 days – it was a miracle that I was alive.  I was in a regular med unit for 2 days and then in the state of Virginia you go to the psych ward if you try to take your life.  It’s a state rule. </p>
<p>So, it was when I was in the psych ward – you get put through evaluations, group therapy, individual therapy and it was through this process of them trying to figure out what was wrong with me that they said, “Well, we don’t really know but we really think that you are probably a lesbian and you are having problems with coming out issues.”  </p>
<p>They actually put that as my treatment plan and I had to meet with my family before they would release me from the hospital to explore this issue.  So, that was the first time that I had really explored this issue.  It was in the hospital, with my parents, my extended family and also my husband at the time, even though we were separated, and soon after that we parted ways and we got a divorce.  So, back in 1994, was the first time that I really self-identified myself as a lesbian.</p>
<p>LifeSiteNews: What led you to attempt suicide?</p>
<p>Miller: What led me to that was – from the age of 7, my parents had divorced and I had started taking Speed.  I didn’t know that that was what it was at the time because you could get it over the counter basically.  Through a serious of addictions from the time I was 7, up until the time I met my husband, I had never had alcohol.  </p>
<p>When I met my husband, he introduced me to alcohol and mixing that with some pills that I was taking and I had food addictions – I guess, it really did depress me and, at that time, I just felt that nothing else was going to get better and I was having marital problems with my husband at the time and I just decided that I wanted to end my life&#8230;  &#8221;<br />
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  Okay who may be the one not fit to take care of a child? Just like the judge said the parent that in her fervor failed to adhere to a child visitation order.   I think we can see who the crazy one is &#8211; on Miller&#8217;s admission. No one in their right mond would run from the feds.   So Eric you say why bring religion into and let me tell you the one who did &#8211; LISA Miller herlsef, because she is spinning the line that JESUS saved her from the carziness she is confessing to in the interview.   Now I dont believe that if you clap your hands and say Hallelejuh that you can save yourslef from doing bad shit like this again.   I think this interview shows that child to be at grave risk as long as Lisa is on the run from the law.</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 03:11:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Andrea, that is the exact same argument that Sean Goldman&#039;s &quot;family&quot; in Brazil made. &quot;But he doesn&#039;t know his parent! He&#039;s been here for 5 years, he&#039;s happy here! Its going to upset him to move him from the kidnappers family! He&#039;s bonded to us, not his parent!&quot; So when a child has been kidnapped for a certain period of time, the kidnapper should just be allowed to keep the kid? Or worse, if your child/sibling/cousin was kidnapped as a child and found 5 years later, they should be left with the kidnapper? THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE SAYING.  
All the parents of Kidnapped children would CERTAINLY disagree with you!!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andrea, that is the exact same argument that Sean Goldman&#8217;s &#8220;family&#8221; in Brazil made. &#8220;But he doesn&#8217;t know his parent! He&#8217;s been here for 5 years, he&#8217;s happy here! Its going to upset him to move him from the kidnappers family! He&#8217;s bonded to us, not his parent!&#8221; So when a child has been kidnapped for a certain period of time, the kidnapper should just be allowed to keep the kid? Or worse, if your child/sibling/cousin was kidnapped as a child and found 5 years later, they should be left with the kidnapper? THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE SAYING.<br />
All the parents of Kidnapped children would CERTAINLY disagree with you!!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: Caryn Riswold</title>
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		<dc:creator>Caryn Riswold</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 02:27:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;End religion-based prejudice RT @SistersTalk #Christian Anti-Gay Groups Aiding &amp; Abetting Lisa Miller’s Defiance http://bit.ly/4Ftucx #lgbt&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
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		<title>By: Sarah Blakeman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sarah Blakeman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 02:27:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: aprilp36</title>
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		<dc:creator>aprilp36</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 02:17:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_comment&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_twitter_username&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;topsy_trackback_content&quot;&gt;RT @SistersTalk: Are Christian Anti-Gay Group/s Aiding &amp; Abetting Lisa Miller’s Defiance of Court Order? -  http://bit.ly/4Ftucx&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</description>
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		<title>By: MoJoJules</title>
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		<dc:creator>MoJoJules</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 02:15:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<dc:creator>LGBT Talk Radio </dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 02:14:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 01:43:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What people like this do not seem to know is their Bible, - there is absolutely no reference in the bible to lesbian relationship being wrong - and in fact any demand to produce children is ironically in this modern dat and age quite an easy accomplishment. Sometimes lesbians use sperm donated by gay male friends.   You are so right - most these people who comment and turn this into hate are truly ignorant or if they are smart, they have an alternate agenda .... THanks again for your thoughtful and provocative participation. Melanie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What people like this do not seem to know is their Bible, &#8211; there is absolutely no reference in the bible to lesbian relationship being wrong &#8211; and in fact any demand to produce children is ironically in this modern dat and age quite an easy accomplishment. Sometimes lesbians use sperm donated by gay male friends.   You are so right &#8211; most these people who comment and turn this into hate are truly ignorant or if they are smart, they have an alternate agenda &#8230;. THanks again for your thoughtful and provocative participation. Melanie</p>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 01:37:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Julie, I really appreciate your visiting this site and of course all are most welcome.  I also appreciate your common sense and the relevant example you have provided. Please feel free to visit any time.  thanks, melanie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Julie, I really appreciate your visiting this site and of course all are most welcome.  I also appreciate your common sense and the relevant example you have provided. Please feel free to visit any time.  thanks, melanie</p>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 01:35:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Eric Smith - My same-sex spouse and I have two children.  One was through insemination and the oter we adopted from an Asian orphanage when she had been abandoned as a tiny baby.  I think I am doing G-d&#039;s work.   You only have to llok at my success and my superbly well adjusted kids.    I love myself, I love my family.  I am proud of being gay because I know it was G-d&#039;s choice for me and not my own.   I do a great deal of community volunteer work and I know that my loving kindness and attitude to life has served to do precisely what G-d would have expected of me.  Your comments are not only offensive on his site but indicate you need an education.  I have no idea how old you are- nor does it matter - but if you would like a scholarship to improve your education, I believe I can get a bunch of us lesbians to raise some money for you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eric Smith &#8211; My same-sex spouse and I have two children.  One was through insemination and the oter we adopted from an Asian orphanage when she had been abandoned as a tiny baby.  I think I am doing G-d&#8217;s work.   You only have to llok at my success and my superbly well adjusted kids.    I love myself, I love my family.  I am proud of being gay because I know it was G-d&#8217;s choice for me and not my own.   I do a great deal of community volunteer work and I know that my loving kindness and attitude to life has served to do precisely what G-d would have expected of me.  Your comments are not only offensive on his site but indicate you need an education.  I have no idea how old you are- nor does it matter &#8211; but if you would like a scholarship to improve your education, I believe I can get a bunch of us lesbians to raise some money for you.</p>
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		<title>By: Melanie Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 01:30:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes, Priya Additionally she Thurman uses this defiance of the civil law and the resulting criminal act as an example of being a &quot;true mother&quot;  This is not a mere statement it has serious implications for society as a whole because what it does is say Bible and belief (if its the Christian way) rules over law -</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes, Priya Additionally she Thurman uses this defiance of the civil law and the resulting criminal act as an example of being a &#8220;true mother&#8221;  This is not a mere statement it has serious implications for society as a whole because what it does is say Bible and belief (if its the Christian way) rules over law -</p>
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		<title>By: Sei</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sei</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 01:24:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Andrea,

Judge Cohen already took this into consideration.  He has made his decision.  It is unfair for Isabella to be denied access to her mother, and it is illegal for Lisa Miller to abduct her.  You may not agree, but this is the law.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andrea,</p>
<p>Judge Cohen already took this into consideration.  He has made his decision.  It is unfair for Isabella to be denied access to her mother, and it is illegal for Lisa Miller to abduct her.  You may not agree, but this is the law.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrea</title>
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		<dc:creator>Andrea</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Jan 2010 00:35:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ruining the kid&#039;s life for the sake of legal precedent seems very unfair. She doesn&#039;t know or love Jenkins, much less view her as her mother.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ruining the kid&#8217;s life for the sake of legal precedent seems very unfair. She doesn&#8217;t know or love Jenkins, much less view her as her mother.</p>
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		<title>By: a. mcewen</title>
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		<dc:creator>a. mcewen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 21:22:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry Andrea but Miller&#039;s actions sends a bad message regarding the laws of this country and especially Christianity. This entire thing got worse because she wouldn&#039;t abide by court orders and allow Jenkins to see their daughter. She shouldn&#039;t be rewarded for that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry Andrea but Miller&#8217;s actions sends a bad message regarding the laws of this country and especially Christianity. This entire thing got worse because she wouldn&#8217;t abide by court orders and allow Jenkins to see their daughter. She shouldn&#8217;t be rewarded for that.</p>
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		<title>By: a. mcewen</title>
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		<dc:creator>a. mcewen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 21:20:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A lot of people aren&#039;t necessarily flocking to Miller&#039;s defense. True there are some who are buying her arguments but this flood of support you are alluding to doesn&#039;t exist. Even Debbie Thurman, a blog advocate for Miller, is sliding herself out of this situation.

And there is has been a strange degree of silence from the Liberty Counsel. I think a lot of folks are realizing that Miller went too far here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of people aren&#8217;t necessarily flocking to Miller&#8217;s defense. True there are some who are buying her arguments but this flood of support you are alluding to doesn&#8217;t exist. Even Debbie Thurman, a blog advocate for Miller, is sliding herself out of this situation.</p>
<p>And there is has been a strange degree of silence from the Liberty Counsel. I think a lot of folks are realizing that Miller went too far here.</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 21:19:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How about the fact that any child, no matter HOW they are conceived, is a LEGAL child of BOTH parents if born into a Marriage? Whether Miller is the only one biologically related to the child is trumped by LAW on this one.

You are incorrect about Miller being open to visitation of any kind. READ THE STORY. She refused ALL visitation.... even AFTER the judge told her to knock it off.

Bad visitations? Try again. There was ONE report.... which was proven unfounded. 

VIRGINIA has nothing to do with this. The case was started in Vermont, which had governing authority, even Virginia admits it. So what your saying is that a legal court order from another state is not valid? Oh yes, lets do this please. That means if you commit a crime in one state, all you have to do is move to another one so you won&#039;t get arrested. I know lots of murderers, rapist and child molesters who would LOVE your interpretation of the law!

Anyone supporting or hiding a kidnapped child is a FELON. PERIOD.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How about the fact that any child, no matter HOW they are conceived, is a LEGAL child of BOTH parents if born into a Marriage? Whether Miller is the only one biologically related to the child is trumped by LAW on this one.</p>
<p>You are incorrect about Miller being open to visitation of any kind. READ THE STORY. She refused ALL visitation&#8230;. even AFTER the judge told her to knock it off.</p>
<p>Bad visitations? Try again. There was ONE report&#8230;. which was proven unfounded. </p>
<p>VIRGINIA has nothing to do with this. The case was started in Vermont, which had governing authority, even Virginia admits it. So what your saying is that a legal court order from another state is not valid? Oh yes, lets do this please. That means if you commit a crime in one state, all you have to do is move to another one so you won&#8217;t get arrested. I know lots of murderers, rapist and child molesters who would LOVE your interpretation of the law!</p>
<p>Anyone supporting or hiding a kidnapped child is a FELON. PERIOD.</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
		<link>http://lezgetreal.com/2010/01/are-christian-anti-gay-groups-aiding-abetting-lisa-millers-defiance-of-court-order/comment-page-1/#comment-26909</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 21:12:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You have NEVER read the first amendment have you???? It says the government can NOT force everyone to be of one religion, or to follow the rules of one religion over another. This IS what happens when states start dictating religious practices to people of a different religion! Anyone who was gay would have been given equal rights a long time ago... probably in the 20th amendment... if it hadn&#039;t been for RELIGION DICTATING LAW. Now that we are trying to comply with the first amendment, all you Christians are having a fit because suddenly your religion isn&#039;t the primary force behind the law. 

Get over it. Christianity is only ONE of thousands of religions in this county. Fanatic Christians are even a minority among Christians. 

As for abomination of God.... I think God would find YOU to be an abomination. You use his name to do Satan&#039;s work. You have ignored his commandment to love your fellow man and women. You have completely IGNORED his first 10 commandments in order to focus on &quot;sin&quot; number 1456, that was only a SIN because some Catholic monk in the dark ages said it was. Personally, I think God isn&#039;t nearly as petty as you seem to think. Honestly! I think god would find any relationship that contains love, honestly, kindness, compassion and caring to be wonderful compared to the hatred, murder and terrorism that is promoted in &quot;his&quot; name by so many people calling themselves &quot;HIS&quot; followers!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have NEVER read the first amendment have you???? It says the government can NOT force everyone to be of one religion, or to follow the rules of one religion over another. This IS what happens when states start dictating religious practices to people of a different religion! Anyone who was gay would have been given equal rights a long time ago&#8230; probably in the 20th amendment&#8230; if it hadn&#8217;t been for RELIGION DICTATING LAW. Now that we are trying to comply with the first amendment, all you Christians are having a fit because suddenly your religion isn&#8217;t the primary force behind the law. </p>
<p>Get over it. Christianity is only ONE of thousands of religions in this county. Fanatic Christians are even a minority among Christians. </p>
<p>As for abomination of God&#8230;. I think God would find YOU to be an abomination. You use his name to do Satan&#8217;s work. You have ignored his commandment to love your fellow man and women. You have completely IGNORED his first 10 commandments in order to focus on &#8220;sin&#8221; number 1456, that was only a SIN because some Catholic monk in the dark ages said it was. Personally, I think God isn&#8217;t nearly as petty as you seem to think. Honestly! I think god would find any relationship that contains love, honestly, kindness, compassion and caring to be wonderful compared to the hatred, murder and terrorism that is promoted in &#8220;his&#8221; name by so many people calling themselves &#8220;HIS&#8221; followers!</p>
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		<title>By: Julie</title>
		<link>http://lezgetreal.com/2010/01/are-christian-anti-gay-groups-aiding-abetting-lisa-millers-defiance-of-court-order/comment-page-1/#comment-26905</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Jan 2010 20:56:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Excuse me, but I am not a member of the LGBT community. As I am an old, straight woman with a husband, children and woman do nothing for me, I don&#039;t think I&#039;m allowed to join.  My judgement is not based so much on religion, but on THE LAW, something you have willfully forgotten. This child was KIDNAPPED alright, but by MS. MILLER. Just as Sean Goldman was KIDNAPPED to Brazil. So should we have let poor Sean stay in Brazil after he was KIDNAPPED by his NON CUSTODIAL parent, just because he lived there for 5 years and didn&#039;t have the opportunity to know his father because the other parent interfered? I think not. Two wrongs do NOT make a right! This case is EXACTLY the same! 

Now let me explain, in little itty bitty words the law to you. Isabella was born into a legal union / marriage. You might not LIKE it, you might not AGREE with it, but it is the FACTS. ANY child, born into a marriage of any sort, is considered the child of that marriage. (Still following me or did I lose you already?) That means the child is the legal child of the TWO PEOPLE of that marriage. (I lost you, didn&#039;t I?) It does not MATTER how that child &quot;came to be&quot; in that marriage... whether it was by natural conception, artificial insemination, adoption or that the woman was screwing around with someone else. (Plenty of court precedent for that argument!) Those two people are STILL the legal and REAL parents of that child. Should those parents divorce, they are STILL the legal and REAL parents of any child born into that marriage, even if that child is not &quot;biologically&quot; related to those parents. If that was NOT TRUE, than any woman who became pregnant by artificial insemination would be the sole parent of a child, even if she was married. (There are plenty of men who are sterile yet use artificial insemination to have a child with his wife. Those men are still considered the legal and REAL fathers of those children.) 

Therefore, Isabella is the LEGAL child of BOTH PARENTS. They are BOTH her REAL PARENTS. One parent does not have the right to ILLEGALLY ban the other parent from involvement with THEIR child. 

So sorry.... I know you hate the fact that RELIGION does NOT trump the law. I know you feel that it should... at least as long as it is YOUR religion! It doesn&#039;t work that way. A Satanist who kidnaps and murders a child because it is &quot;part of their religion&quot; is still a kidnapper and murderer. The law STILL applies to them, even if that part of their religion is in conflict with the law. LAW TRUMPS ALL.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Excuse me, but I am not a member of the LGBT community. As I am an old, straight woman with a husband, children and woman do nothing for me, I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;m allowed to join.  My judgement is not based so much on religion, but on THE LAW, something you have willfully forgotten. This child was KIDNAPPED alright, but by MS. MILLER. Just as Sean Goldman was KIDNAPPED to Brazil. So should we have let poor Sean stay in Brazil after he was KIDNAPPED by his NON CUSTODIAL parent, just because he lived there for 5 years and didn&#8217;t have the opportunity to know his father because the other parent interfered? I think not. Two wrongs do NOT make a right! This case is EXACTLY the same! </p>
<p>Now let me explain, in little itty bitty words the law to you. Isabella was born into a legal union / marriage. You might not LIKE it, you might not AGREE with it, but it is the FACTS. ANY child, born into a marriage of any sort, is considered the child of that marriage. (Still following me or did I lose you already?) That means the child is the legal child of the TWO PEOPLE of that marriage. (I lost you, didn&#8217;t I?) It does not MATTER how that child &#8220;came to be&#8221; in that marriage&#8230; whether it was by natural conception, artificial insemination, adoption or that the woman was screwing around with someone else. (Plenty of court precedent for that argument!) Those two people are STILL the legal and REAL parents of that child. Should those parents divorce, they are STILL the legal and REAL parents of any child born into that marriage, even if that child is not &#8220;biologically&#8221; related to those parents. If that was NOT TRUE, than any woman who became pregnant by artificial insemination would be the sole parent of a child, even if she was married. (There are plenty of men who are sterile yet use artificial insemination to have a child with his wife. Those men are still considered the legal and REAL fathers of those children.) </p>
<p>Therefore, Isabella is the LEGAL child of BOTH PARENTS. They are BOTH her REAL PARENTS. One parent does not have the right to ILLEGALLY ban the other parent from involvement with THEIR child. </p>
<p>So sorry&#8230;. I know you hate the fact that RELIGION does NOT trump the law. I know you feel that it should&#8230; at least as long as it is YOUR religion! It doesn&#8217;t work that way. A Satanist who kidnaps and murders a child because it is &#8220;part of their religion&#8221; is still a kidnapper and murderer. The law STILL applies to them, even if that part of their religion is in conflict with the law. LAW TRUMPS ALL.</p>
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