It’s starting to get a little bit bizarre. I have checked the weather forecast in Hell and apparently it’s a tad chilly. Republicans all over the place are coming out in favour of gay marriage. It doesn’t sound right, but there it is. Can opened, worms everywhere. Awesome, gay-rights-supporting worms.

I mean, a while back, Dick Cheney answered a question about marriage equality by saying, “freedom means freedom for everyone.” But he has a gay daughter, and you can expect someone to gain some perspective from that.

And then there is Meghan McCain. While not overly popular with the Repulican old guard, she’s a poster girl for the new wave of younger, more secular Republicans and she is vehemently pro-gay rights. And yesterday, her mother, Cindy McCain, came out as a supporter of marriage equality as well.

Margaret Hoover, Fox News Contributor, also wrote a blog post in favour of same-sex marraige rights. She writes,

“I’m joining this effort as a representative of a new generation of Republicans whose conservatism consistently emphasizes individual freedom and recognizes the constitutional right of all Americans to marry.”

We also have Ted Olson on our side. As Rachel Maddow reported just the other day, the high profile conservative lawyer has decided to fight to defeat California’s Proposition 8.

Rachel Maddow on Ted Olson’s fight for marriage equality (MSNBC video)

So, can we expect to see some Democrats supporting marriage equality? Obama? Hello? Can you hear us?

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12/04/09 – Reported from Unite The Fight:

The three judge panel of the Ninth Circuit Court of Appeals looks like they will reverse Judge Walker’s orders that the Prop 8 campaign hand over internal communications to the Olson/Boies team who is challenging the discriminatory initiative in federal court.

Judges Kim Wardlaw, Raymond Fisher and Marsha Berzon, who were all appointed to the court by former President Bill Clinton, said proponents “have made a strong showing that they are likely to succeed” in their Tuesday arguments that their private communications were protected under the First Amendment. The judges said they will issue a ruling soon, but in the meantime, have stayed Walker’s order. See full order posted in full below.

The ACLU, in a unusual move, issued an amicus brief, siding with the Prop 8 proponents despite the fact that they campaigned against the initiative.

You can read more at www.unitethefight.org.

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  By Melanie Nathan:  38-24 –numbers that may win someone the lottery some day but could not be more invidiously representative of anything other than the most pusillanimous* perfidy of the year…

 The people of New York State are not against Gay marriage, yet its representatives are; how does one explain such a phenomenon?  The deliberate duplicity of the eight democrats who voted ‘no’ was characterized by Senator Tom Duane as pure betrayal – and the infringing eight are:-

1. Joseph Addabbo (D) (518) 455-2322; 
2. Darrel Aubertine (D) (518) 455-2761;
3. Ruben Diaz (D) (518) 455-2511; 
4. Shirley Huntley (D) (518) 455-3531;
5. Carl Kruger (D) (518) 455-2460; 
6. Hiram Monserrate (D) (518) 455-2529;
7. George Onorato (D) (518) 455-3486; 
8. William Stachowski (D) (518)-455-2426.

CNN reports that the Marist College poll released the same day as Senate vote finds that a majority of New Yorkers support marriage equality at 51-42%.   It is quite ironic that their representatives left their spines at home the day of the vote. They chose to vote NO contrary to their supposed democratic ideals, regardless of fairness for their constituents, and in defiance of colleagues. What can they be afraid of if they are not fearful of re-election? Their ‘no’ votes will not please constituents, given the polls. Could it be a concomitant of their respective personal beliefs – anti-gay; anti-equality; church bonded, some bog donor dangling some big carrot?  I suggest that all the 51 % pro same-sex marriage supporters censure this disdainful crew, through the withdrawal of all support, to the point of bye-bye political careers.  Instead of assisting to make history in the interests of equality this group of schmendricks are now ensconced in the RAINBOW HALL OF SHAME.

 Anger aside, what is truly most hurtful to me is my own ebbing trust; a tide that is pulling me farther and farther out to sea and with every “NO you cannot,” my wedding cake icing, “Yes We Can” flails in its hopeless glaze, as my excruciating retort from the failure of the Democratic Party to hone a faithful and authentic crew, edges to that part of the ocean that slips beyond the horizon. 

 In viewing the roll, every single Republican voted NO – not one of them out of their usual and profoundly effective lock step. Reminiscent of Rex Harrison during ‘My Fair Lady’, “Why can’t the English learn to speak-” ‘why can’t the democrats learn to vote?” This malfunction is the Democratic Achilles heel and New York State is a tip of the iceberg.  If only the democrats could vote in sync each and every time maybe something will change here in ‘Retro-land.’

 Where is our Martin Luther King, to lead us through the streets of this unconscious wasteland; – where the GOOD are few, the BAD are many and the GUTlLESS prevail.

 P.S. Call the Gutless Crew and let them know what you think of their vote.

 (*showing a contemptible lack of boldness and resolve)

Authored by Melanie Nathan- (citizen,  mother, wife,  daughter, queer, a  niece, cousin,  Aunt, Sister, friend,  wise-fool, volunteer, in the box, out the box, – still planet earth, comparative privilege, ever-grateful, trying to feel pain, measured guilt,  abhorred by injustice, glass half full half the time, too well-read and out-traveled; lived in Africa, live in USA, mediator, advocate, activist, idealist, dreamer, doer, done! nathan@privatecourts.com ; www.oblogdeeoblogda.wordpress.com

 From the Mediation desk of Melanie Nathan:     Recently in my mediation practice I have had a spate of divorce cases where the spouses (partners)  have been at odds about how to deal with underwater real estate.  When dividing community property real estate, the purpose of the mediator is to assist the parties in  dividing the asset, either through a sale of the property, a buyout by one spouse of fifty percent of the community property equity interest;  and possibly a continuing partnership in the property.  This may also apply where there is no community property and the parties jointly own the property.

 Since the recession and housing bust, there has been an increasing amount of homes either about to be foreclosed or upside down. Often both or one party may still be feeding community or post separation income into  an unviable  property.    These situations may be remedied by short sales, loan modification, divorce settlements providing inter spousal transfers and indemnifications for debt assumed, or simply by walking away.

This difficult situation adds to the stress of divorce, especially if the parties are not in tandem as to the fate of the property.   Some may want to hold on to the property in the hope of a future upside,  and whomever remains on must be prepared to take responsibility for their share of the holding costs, such as mortgage payments, property tax, maintenance costs and insurance.  If one party decides to hold on, there is no likelihood of the other receiving any cash settlement  for an upside down property, regardless of what went into the property or the dream of a future upside.   

 I have had cases where one spouse holds the property, like the sword of Damocles, over the head of the other, asserting they will be stuck with poor credit, unable to find rental accommodation, in legal trouble, creating fear resulting in the threatened party holding on for longer than necessary.   

 This is where a neutral mediator and/or advice of a consulting attorney is imperative.  The neutral can help the party step out of the dream into reality.  The neutral provides a safe and peaceful environment for joint exploration of the remedies and can facilitate a productive discussion, helping the parties crunch numbers,  call in other  professionals such as CPA or Mortgage expert to assist with the analysis.  

Fear, misunderstanding  and false senses of security ought not stand in the way of moving forward. It is important to pursue the evolving legal remedies.   These cases need to be mediated rather than litigated. Positioning and pos toward resolving all the issues. Using separate attorneys can be counter- productive and may result in wasted precious time, while throwing good after bad. A party can always have a separate consulting attorney on the side.  

 With all this in mind I was delighted to come across an article by Kenneth R. Harney, November 29, 2009, in the LA times: “Professor advises underwater homeowners to walk away from mortgages; Brent T. White, a University of Arizona law school professor, says that it’s in the homeowners’ best financial interest to stiff their lenders and that it’s not immoral to do so.” … read on…   ( A MUST READ!)

“Go ahead. Break the chains. Stop paying on your mortgage if you owe more than the house is worth. And most important: Don’t feel guilty about it. Don’t think you’re doing something morally wrong.

That’s the incendiary core message of a new academic paper by Brent T. White, a University of Arizona law school professor, titled “Underwater and Not Walking Away: Shame, Fear and the Social Management of the Housing Crisis.”

White contends that far more of the estimated 15 million U.S. homeowners who are underwater on their mortgages should stiff their lenders and take a hike.”  

 This Article, a breathe of fair air, served to endorse my sentiment which I have not hesitated to express in mediation. These are unusual times.  Although the facts of each case may seem similar, they all have a distinctive circumstance and the facts must be explored in detail before a strategy is employed. The one piece of generic advice that I can impart is that one spouse should not be held hostage by the other to a hope or dream about the  future of the property, or to any obligation.  Divorce provides a unique opportunity to walk away from the property and leave it in the hands of the Party who does not want to give it up.  The mediator can help draft documents to reflect such an undertaking by one, documenting the discussion that led to the decision.      The change in spousal relationship can have an impact on negotiations with mortgage lenders and indemnities can be established between spouses for an element of protection if the lender pursues the non-owner spouse in the future.  Also of course a plan can be made for both to walk away. 

 Save your money,  and muster up six months of rent instead of paying it into the property. If you have bad credit and need to rent a property you can offer a few months of advance rental.  However BUYER BEWARE – when you pay rental ahead- be sure that the home you are renting is not about to be foreclosed upon as you may find yourself the victim of the Landlord’s inability to pay his/her mortgage.  

 I believe that walking away from an expensive dream opens the door for an inexpensive reality and good nights of sleep. 

MELANIE NATHAN 
nathan@privatecourts.com
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www.divorcemediators.us

  by  Melanie Nathan:  I do not go a single day without wondering how the Federal Government can usurp the rights I have been given by my State,  which rights in essence are nothing more than civil rights providing me with rights equal to my fellow Americans.  Doma is a Con, and America has fallen for it, including President Obama.  What will happen if we disregard DOMA; if we simply pretend it is not there?  The only way we can do that is to keep asserting our rights and filing in the forms that they say do not apply to us. 

 Time.com reports a bombshell and a big kick in the side for the Obama Administration.  A little hole in DOMA which may lead to a blow out for the iniquitous law:

Chief Judge Alex Kozinski of the Ninth Circuit of the U.S. Court of Appeal issued an unusual and exceedingly profound challenge to the power of the Executive Branch, by doing something not even the most sweeping state-court constitutional decisions on gay marriage have been  able to do: put the issue of equal treatment for gays to President Barack Obama in a way he will find hard to ignore.  

 ”The Office of Personnel Management shall cease at once its interference with the jurisdiction of this tribunal. “  He gave the Obama Administration 30 days to permit Karen Golinski, a lawyer employed by the Ninth Circuit, to include the woman she married under California law last year on her family health-insurance plan. “Some branch must have the final say on a law’s meaning. At least as to laws governing judicial employees, that is entirely our duty and our province. We would not be a co-equal branch of government otherwise.”

Will President Obama defend the actions of the FEDS and refer to the Defense of Marriage Act, a policy that Obama has consistently said that he is against (even though the Obama Administration has defended the law on several occasions since his taking office), and run the risk of Judge Kuzinski taking further legal action?  Or, will they concede that the Office of Personnel Management overstepped its bounds by interfering with the judicial branch, and flirt with conceding too that DOMA itself is overreaching and infringes not just on this one Court’s ability to make rulings independently, but a state’s right to autonomy, and, as part of that, its right to define marriage by its own constitution as expressly stated as part of the Defense of Marriage Act?

The unusual order is only incidentally about gay rights — the judge sidestepped the constitutional question about gays entirely — and is instead a fiery defense of the rights of the judiciary to manage its own employees. But if the Administration chooses to fight the order, it will have to tread carefully to avoid looking to gay-rights advocates like it is waging war in defense of a statute — the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) — that candidate Obama had said should be overturned.

“Kozinski’s order comes at an interesting time in the Ninth Circuit. It was matched last week by an order by a fellow judge on the appeals court, who ruled that Brad Levenson, a public defender working for the federal courts, was entitled to back pay to cover costs associated with buying separate insurance policies he purchased for Tony Sears, whom he married under California law before last year’s Prop 8 made gay marriage illegal there. That state constitutional amendment will itself be on trial beginning in January, when a U.S. district judge in San Francisco will hold the first federal jury trial on whether the U.S. Constitution requires that gay couples be given the opportunity to be married. As chief judge of the circuit, Kozinski will then almost certainly hear the Prop 8 case when it goes on appeal.”

Read more: http://www.time.com/time/nation/article/0,8599,1942791-1,00.html#ixzz0Y76ZmcT3

So I say if you believe you are entitled Fill in that Form and help put another nail in the coffin signaling the DEMISE OF DOMA.  By the way keep your eye on this one.

Blogged by Melanie Nathan, nathan@privatecourts.com

In  mid- 2009, MassEquality sent a survey to one individual in each of the 38,210 households on its mailing list to capture the participant sample possible,  providing the largest “snapshot” ever taken of the health of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) communities.   Health data were collected through an online questionnaire developed by the Massachusetts Department of Public Health (MDPH) in consultation with the Williams Institute at UCLA Law School, a think tank dedicated to LGBT issuesA follow‐up email went out halfway through the data collection period. The  online survey was completed by 1,598 individuals in a period just over one week, yielding a response rate of 4.2%. Among the findings:

 • Among lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender persons, the health of bisexual and transgender people is somewhat worse than their heterosexual and non-transgender counterparts, respectively.

• The health of lesbian, gay, people is comparable to that of heterosexual respondents. However, lesbians were less likely to have routine pap tests compared with their heterosexual female counterparts.

• Transgender persons had worse outcomes with respect to self‐reported health, disability status, depression, anxiety, suicide ideation, and lifetime violence victimization.

• Bisexual respondents how worse outcomes with respect to self‐reported health, disability status, suicide ideation, as well as lower rates of mammography for bisexual women compared with their heterosexual female counterparts.

• Legally married same‐sex couples were more likely to obtain health insurance through their spouse’s employer than non‐legally same sex couples.

 This research validates the research on other minority populations that associates stigma and other social determinants with poor health outcomes.  The health disparities faced by minority groups are all too common. Increasingly, there are more theories regarding the factors that lead to health disparities. Research increasingly points to a range of social inequities including income, access to health care or insurance, and housing as factors that impact everyone regardless of race, sexual orientation or gender. However, there are theories specific to minority groups that add additional factors based on minority status.

 Recent changes, including marriage equality, may be helping to reduce disparities for lesbians and gay men, possibly by providing greater access to health insurance.  However, transgender persons still face major barriers with respect to employment nondiscrimination, public accommodations and general social acceptance. This report finds transgender persons reporting the highest level of health disparities.  See http://www.mass.gov/Eeohhs2/docs/dph/commissioner/lgbt_health_report.pdf

One big hit is when it comes to  Gay Men and Women with Diabetes  -    Could the medical community be overlooking 2.5 million people who have diabetes?  Currently, 23.6 million children and adults in the United States, or 7.8 percent of the population, have diabetes. Although an estimated 17.9 million of them have been diagnosed, 5.7 million (nearly one quarter) are unaware that they have the disease.  If lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered (LGBT) people comprise 10 percent of the U.S. population, then 10 percent of people with diabetes are part of the LGBT community-about 2.5 million people.  (Another reason to participate in the 2010 census.)

Lack of equality has always been a problem as we all know, but when it comes to specific stories we realize just how hard we must fight, because our lack of rights  detrimentaly impact  every aspect of our lives.  When Jim went to a local emergency room  for kidney stones, he experienced an episode of hypoglycemia. While he was trying to get a nurse’s attention to explain what was happening, his blood sugar sank to a dangerous 19 mg/dL and he began to have a seizure. The emergency staff rushed to raise his blood sugar and admit him to the intensive care unit, but no one bothered to tell his spouse, John, who was scared and confused.   Yet another example of the loneliness of marriage for a gay couple in the US.

“ Diabetes is a stress in any relationship and  when you combine that with the added stresses of life as a lesbian or a gay man-whether you are open about it or not-there is a great need for LGBT people with diabetes and the partners who support them to receive services and information geared to their unique needs, “  Said John from DANG Foundation.   

With the help available in the myriad of articles and unique content provided by  pre-eminent sites like the Diabetes Health Website,  and an increased awareness of one’s right to fight…. my message is fight for your rights and fight for your health…and fight for your health so you can fight for your rights.

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By Melanie Nathan:     In  the fight for immigration equality, grassroots group OUT4IMMIGRATION,  needs your urgent help. They are asking for you to please sign a Petition which can be found via their website or at www.change.org
 
 All we want is a ”Point-and-click” a letter off to Senator Schumer and Congresswoman Lofgren, reminding them that comprehensive immigration reform will only occur if ALL families are included — including our LGBT families – The issue is building and the festering unknown is the possibility of our exclusion.  There are thousands of your brothers and sisters waiting to be reunited with their lovers/partners/spouses, as the case may be.  But there is no law for us AND we are specifically exluded by the law - As American we  cannot sponsor for our spouses under the Immigration law of thus United States of America.

T, stranded in Europe says  ”Some may get nervous writing letters; no worries, the letter is done for you.  Simply create a log in name and “click” — BOOM!, those e-mail letters are sent.  Some of you may be nervous about exposing yourself by writing — but all you need to is make up a log in name. …  I understand your desire for anonymity, but PLEASE make up a ghost pen name if you must and send the letters.  Some of you may not like what is written — want to compose your own note?  Just “overwrite” the existing text with your own .”

I believe short representations of the most poignant aspects of our personal stories are most effective. Our Reps want to hear our stories even more than they want to hear from organizations. Therein lies the power of your correspondence. However be sure to include the main talking points which are very clear from the links.
 
Momentum is building for our issue;  our time must be now or as Senator Gillibrand mentioned recently it may be too late.  Senator Arlen Specter just signed on as a cosponsor of Uniting American Families Act and I have no doubt it  was our letters and blogging that got us there.    More and more press attention is being devoted to this issue.  Now is not the time to be timid or afraid.  Be bold!  Demand what is rightfully ours — demand the right (not chance, not privilege) to be with your one true love.  Demand it for your friends and for your fellow borthers and sisters.  We must all work as hard now as ever, even harder.  Quoting the grassroots campaign of Out 4 Immigration which has a goal to obtain goal  1000 signatures –   

T says. – “when I sent mine, I was Number 130.  A friend and ally SF had 130+ people at the rally she organized last week in Florida. She stood in the daylight and asked for change.  Surely we all can sit in the comfort of our own homes, in our pajamas and point and click for change, right?
 
T says – I give you equal parts inspiration and determination, seasoned with a dash of chiding.  C’mon, everyone — my partner “M” and I NEED you.  We all need each other.  Please help us.  Please help yourselves.  If we do the work, we will reap the rewards…”
 
 If you haven’t done so already, please go to the change.org page and send the e-mails to Senator Schumer and Congresswoman Lofgren as well. NOW please whether you are impacted directly or not.

We are asking that we be included in Comprehensive immigration reform through the Uniting American Families. If you want to read my testimony provided to the Immigration Commission in San Francisco it can be found at www.oblogdeeoblogda.wordpress on the UAFA page.
 

BLOG by Melanie Nathan, nathan@privatecourts.com  www.privatecourts.com
Picture 1: Taken by Melanie Nathan at SF Pride 2009- Includes Shirley Tan, Jay Mercado and Twins,
Together with Lt. Dan C hoi.   Pictire 2: The Tan-Mercado family with Melanie in DC for Senate Judiciary Committee Hearing 2009

 By Melanie Nathan:  With the potential to give all Church’s a bad rap, a diverse group of Christian leaders joined together Nov. 20 to declare a commitment to defend the sanctity of human life, biblical marriage and religious liberty without compromise. One hundred and fifty evangelical, Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox signers said they were coming together to “embrace our obligation” to speak and act in support of the dignity of all human beings, marriage as the union of a man and a woman, and the freedom to express religious convictions. It is imperative that Church leaders and those of faith who disagree with this, not remain silent, but provide the backlash such hate deserves.

The 4,700-word statement, yet another reproach for the LGBT communities, named the Manhattan Declaration,  asserted: “[W]e will not comply with any edict that purports to compel our institutions to participate in abortions, embryo-destructive research, assisted suicide and euthanasia, or any other anti-life act,” the statement says, “nor will we bend to any rule purporting to force us to bless immoral sexual partnerships, treat them as marriages or the equivalent, or refrain from proclaiming the truth, as we know it, about morality and immorality and marriage and the family. We will fully and ungrudgingly render to Caesar what is Caesar’s. But under no circumstances will we render to Caesar what is God’s.”

 ”If you look at the Manhattan Declaration, we are clear that we see a genuine increase in the threat, especially on the sanctity of life front,” said Robert George, a Roman Catholic and a professor at Princeton University. “That’s the result of the federal government having an administration that is deeply committed to legal abortion and [government funding] and a majority in both houses of Congress that share that commitment…. We could have said many of the things that we are saying today a year ago, but some of the things we are saying today have an urgency to them as a result of the [Obama administration].”

 This declaration was drafted in last summer and was worked upon for several months before it was declared on Friday by the leaders of Conservative Christian communities.

The Conservative Christian communities in this declaration are implored to disagree with all rules and regulations that   accept any ideals against Christian doctrines, marriages in same sex and abortion. The leaders of Christianity supporting the declaration stated, “They are motivated and come from the deepest resources of our faith.” They also added that they could have made the declaration earlier but they consider this declaration to be more relevant for the present and future. According to the advocates of this declaration, ‘historic understanding of marriage’, ‘religious liberty’ and ’sanctity of life’ are the major highlights of this declaration.    

Yet, in snide hypocrisy these so called Leaders of Catholic, Evangelical and Orthodox groups were present during the declaration and made it clear that the declaration does not have any political interest.

 So yes, those of a faith that declares its hate – you may – but do not take the majority of Americans for fools, for we believe that you are in truth endeavoring to impact politically. I trust that the majority of true Christians will declare opposition to this statement that purports to speak for all of faith- because it is simply not so for those who subscribe to G-d as a loving G-d.

 Let us not forget the way the various Churches and doctrines have been used to pronounce upon policy through the world over many an era; in modern times we can look to the abhorrent example of Apartheid.  Born from Calvinism in Europe and transported to South Africa via the arrival of Jan Van Riebeck in 1652 on the Shores of the Cape, developed a group who considered themselves a nation of people, the Afrikaner, a white minority in Southern Africa.  They used gunpowder and bible under the Dutch Reform Church’s teachings to ensure that black people were ruled undeserving of equality, that black Africans had an inferior place, one of servitude in a society of religious fervor. In 1949 Apartheid was born, a direct concomitant of these interpretations of the Bible and that birth was engendered in the form of LAW, yes legislation that declared racial prejudice legal, but also institutionalized the required compliance with its discriminatory codes.

 By: Melanie Nathan,
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Note Photo: Consist of Archbishop Wuerl/

Updated – Donald William Wuerl (born November 12, 1940) is an American prelate of the Roman Catholic Church. He is the sixth and current Archbishop of Washington, having previously served as Bishop of Pittsburgh from 1988 to 2006.  Evangelicals like Chuck Colson, Roman Catholics like Archbishop Donald Wuerl, and the other religious leaders who signed the “Manhattan Declaration” don’t seem to understand that justifying discrimination in the name of religious freedom is dangerous to society.

UPDATED: By now we have all heard about the Manhattan Declaration put out by various religious right figures and groups urging, among other things, non-cooperation with laws that in any way recognize same sex couples. It has been condemned in many circles and for good reason.  Wayne Besen of Truthwinsout.org said the following: “This is a disturbing call for anarchy from a group of radical clerics and activists who believe they don’t have play by the same rules as other taxpaying Americans.”  And according to the blog Instaputz, there is another reason to not only oppose this document but also raise the alarm about it.   Some of the names those signing the declaration aren’t a surprise. They are the usual folks who oppose lgbt equality – Tony Perkins, James Dobson, Maggie Gallagher, Gary Bauer, etc.

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 There has been a recent bevy of co-sponsors signing onto the Uniting American Families Act, the legislation that seeks to provide Lesbian and Gay Americans with the right to Petition for their    same-sex spouses/ partners to live in the USA.  This law merely seeks to place the words “permanent partners” into the existing Immigration and Naturalization Act.   This is no time to let up, but rather imprtant that we make the most of the momentum.   I have 14 couples I am trying to help remain together in the US.  That is a tip of the iceberg.  They are all desperate.  They want to stay together and they want to stay at home. We need UAFA legialstion and awareness of the binational issue more so than ever. Please I am asking for your help.   

Today the news was immense when Senator Arlen Specter sign his support to the Bill.  In June this year  the Senator attended and spoke at the Senate Judiciary Committee hearing, in support of equality in immigration. Now he has put his pen to his word and for that we are grateful.  There is no doubt that the Senator’s Democratic rival, Rep.  Joe Sestak, who is challenging Senator Specter for his seat next year, will sign on as co-sponsor as well. However this will probably necessitate  a campaign promise in the meantime.

From my perspective ANY candidate that signs on to UAFA would earn my vote. That is why Barbara Boxer must beat controversial HP spoiler, Carli Fiorina, the Republican contender for the Senator’s California seat.

In addition I believe that the grass roots effort with our4immigration at the helm of a letter writing campaign seems to be paying off. Activists have put in a tremendous amount of hard work and have strategized to target new representatives each and every week.  The new additions in supporting UAFA include:- Senator Ted Kaufman; Congresswoman Donna Edwards signed on as a co-sponsor
of the Reuniting Families Act (H.R. 2709) which includes UAFA which means she would probably also vote for it as stand-alone legislation.

If you are willing to help this critical legislation passed – please help.  Unfortunately UAFA is not first and foremost on the plat of our activists – it has taken last place to HATE crimes Bill, ENDNA and DADT and worse yet it remains on the back burner for those who believe it will be included in Comprehensive Immigration Reform.   

Here is where we need your help:-

Please take a minute to call or fax Senator Carper’s (202) 224-2441office today and tell them you’d like him to support The Uniting American Families Act (S.424) and support it’s inclusion in comprehensive immigration reform, and please share this with anyone you think might be willing to help.  And also the following  who had signed on to the

All five of the following  members of Congress were past co-sponsors of UAFA, and have still not signed on. We need their support once again, and please remind them that they were past co-sponsors when you e-mail them.  Tell them why The Uniting American Families Act matters to your family, if you are impacted and if not simply tell then you want to know if they will support it now.

Congressman Rob Andrews (D-NJ-1) Staffer to contact: Mr. Stephen Hunter, Immigration Aide
Stephen.hunter@mail.house.gov;  Phone: (202) 225-6501; Fax: (202) 225-6583; 

Congress Rep  Kathy Castor (D-FL-11) Phone: (202) 225-3376 Fax: (202) 225-5652

Congressman James Clyburn (D-SC-6)  Staffer to contact: Mr. Danny Cromer, Immigration & LGBT Aide
danny.cromer@mail.house.gov  Phone: (202) 225-3315 Fax: (202) 225-2313

Congressman Al Green (D-TX-9)  Staffer to contact: Ms. Susie Saavedra, LGBT Aide
Susie.saavedra@mail.house.gov  Staffer to contact: Ms. Renee Mayo, Immigration Aide
renee.mayo@mail.house.gov  Phone: (202) 225-7508 Fax: (202) 225-2947

Congressman Dennis Moore (D-KS-3)  Staffer to contact: Ms. Sarah Lochner, LGBT Aide
sarah.lochner@mail.house.gov  Phone: (202) 225-2865; Fax: (202) 225-2807

 Thanks for your help as always.

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11/07/09-by Bridgette P. LaVictoire
There are dozens of statements about how one should not disparage another, especially when you, yourself, have dirty little secrets. It’s all about being a hypocrite. Ms Carrie Prejean, the former Miss California, found out the hard way that cashing in on your loss by becoming the spokesperson for a movement to deny people equality can backfire and badly. Not only was Ms Prejean’s use of “performance enhancing” breast augmentation revealed, but Ms Prejean ended up in her own sex scandal.

Ms Prejean recently counter sued the Miss California USA organization on grounds of wrongful termination after they sued her for breach of contract and the cost of her augmentation. This suit came after attempts to sabotage Ms Prejean’s celebrity by the public revelation of her rather racy pictures in a variety of magazines. The suit came to an end when a sex tape involving Ms Prejean surfaced and was aired in court. The revelation has already lost Ms Prejean a major speaking engagement for an anti-marriage equality group in New Jersey. It may, in the end, result in her losing most of her moral issues support.

As was mentioned by one supporter of David Letterman, the reason why he has managed to withstand the recent controversy over his affair with a member of his staff is because he never pretended to be incredibly moral or anything more than human. Ms Prejean’s decision to try to capitalize on her disastrous run for Miss America ultimately set her up for this fall.

Last night, Kieth Olbermann of MSNBC’s Countdown did a pretty good job of explaining the whole mess.

Edit: Corrected the organization. As a note to readers, I do, upon occasion, make mistakes. A simple polite note of correction is welcome. Insulting me in any way in order to either a) insinuate that I am stupid, b) ill informed, c) not doing research, or d) wrong because of a factual mistake is a guaranteed one way trip to the ‘delete’ bin. I welcome constructive debate, but direct attacks upon me in order to disprove my points are not welcome.

11/02/09- by Julie Phineas As residents in Maine gear up for Election Day tommorrow, a new poll shows those who are in favor of overturning marriage equality in the state are winning by a narrow margin of 51% to 47%.

LGBT activists are in high gear tonight, issuing a “Red Alert” to all who favor marriage equality, asking them to step up participation in the campaign for No on 1 in Maine.

From Jesse Connolly, NO on 1/Protect Maine Equality campaign manager:

I wasn’t going to come to you to ask for money again. We’ve asked so much, and you’ve dug deep and really come through.

Honestly, I wouldn’t take my time away from managing our Get Out The Vote operation to send this email if it wasn’t really important.

But we just heard that Yes on 1 is increasing their TV ad buy by $25,000 today.

$25,000 buys a lot of TV ads in Maine.

With the money we have now, we simply can’t counter their arguments on TV.

You and I have both invested a lot in this campaign. I won’t– I can’t– let them win this because we couldn’t come up with the last $25,000 in the final 36 hours.

We can’t let Yes on 1 win the airtime war with their misleading, and factually inaccurate ads.

We can’t let Yes on 1 lie to Maine voters about schools and teachers and children and same-sex couples in Maine.

We need to stand up and match every one of their lies with an ad of our own, that explains that marriage equality won’t do anything to families but protect all of them.

And I need you to help. Can you come through one last time and give $20 to help us finish this campaign with a win?

Those who are interested in making a donation to the No on 1 campaign for marriage equality in Maine can do so HERE.

You can also find out other ways to help in this last push for marriage equality in Maine by visiting www.unitethefight.org.

Julie Phineas is a work at home mom of 2 who lives in Southern California. You can find out more about her by visiting her page on MySpace.

The latest TV ad from the Yes on 1 campaign argues that same-sex marriage will be taught in school. If you were a child with same-sex parents, how would you feel watching this ad? How would you feel if your parents couldn’t marry? How would you feel if you were treated less than others? Wouldn’t you think we are all the same? So why then couldn’t your parents get married? Is that fair?

No, it’s not.

Vote No on 1.

-Sean Chapin

by   Melanie Nathan:  
Some organizations focus on fundraising and remain furtive in their strategy, citing “we know best” while purporting to advance the cause of binationals in their self appointed autocracy.  However  Out4Immigration remains consistent in its plan – a transparent one- and as always makes  public and involves the public. 

 The group is now in the 34th week of its letter writing campaign and is responsible for much of the traction of UAFA  gaining support on the Hill.  What is noteworthy is the fact that out4Immigration works steadily and consistently to put people on the ground.

We can never underestimate the value of LGBT personal stories. We must introduce ourselves, one by one to Congress. The few organizations are indeed just that,  too few on the Hill, and they do not have the power of the personal story. Congress wants to hear from us. They would rather hear from us than lobbyists and groups. The power of each and every story is as unique as a fingerprint and as relevant as our family entitlements.  This is a skill so beautifully honed by Out4I and passed on to all willing to take the plunge.

Week 34 -” Please sign on to sponsor Uniting American Families Act“   A letter campaign to Congress. If you are in a binational relationship you have not yet done enough unless you write to at least ten congressional representatives, including your own.  Even if your own rep already co-sponsors the legislation, we should all question their leadership on moving it forward. 

 Amos Lim says:-”  Out4Immigration –  is an all grassroots organization and our letter writing campaign is now in its 34th  week.  We have had successes in our campaign by getting more cosponsors on board.  We are also constantly adapting the campaign from feed-back that we received from our members and from our allies. There are people who are interested in doing more than just simple cut and paste and after some discussion, we are incorporating those request into our letter writing campaign. Out4 I provides guidance and options for your own advocacy either on your own behalf or as someone who abhors the fact that so many American are subject to this horrendous inequity that separates our couples.” There are three options in using the names and addresses of the Congressional targets O4I provide:  (1) Send an Out4Immigration form letter.. go to http://out4Immigration.com to join as a member. It is free. (2) Write your own letter telling your personal story (3) Send each representative a self-made booklet that tells your story, shows pictures of your family, includes letters from your employer or others in the community identifying their support for you and the UAFA.  Again, you should send this an individual, although you can use news clippings and links to organizations that advocate for same-sexbinational couples like O4I,  Marriage Equality.

See the OUT4I toolkit: http://tinyurl.com/o4i-toolkit1 for more ideas. Whichever option you choose (and please, choose at least one!) Amos Lim says “know that you are making a difference — and please don’t give up!”

Please join out4Immigration in its quest to help our gay and lesbian families in exile, in hiding or living in uncertainty. we should not have to choose between our heart or home.  Also remember we are all one heart beat away from falling in love with a foreigner.  I encourage all readers to visit Out$Immigration website to see what they are up to.  They ask for nothing except your personal advocacy. It is the least we can all do.

Blogged by, MELANIE NATHAN, C  of Private Courts, Inc. “ Consulting, mediation & private advocacy ; motivated by injustice, I blog about family law/mediation, politics, news and LGBT equality and anything that tickles my fancy.  Otherwise blogging as O-blog-dee-o-blog-da. Websites and blogs include: http://www.privatecourts.com; http://www.divorcemediators.us; www.oblogdeeoblogda.wordpress.com. CONTACT:- nathan@privatecourts.com

Every day LGBT people face inequalities that just don’t make sense, from small acts of discrimination to ones with tragic consequences. The hard reality is that you find out what rights you have when you need them the most. For many of us, that means that we have to ask ourselves, am I protected? Unfortunately, we have a long ways to go, and each and every one of us must do our part. Visit http://amiprotected.org.

Charlene Strong lost her partner Kate Fleming after a tragic flooding incident in Seattle in late 2006, and was nearly barred from seeing Fleming in her last moments of life. Strongs heart-wrenching testimony about the hospital ordeal helped prompt Washington State to pass domestic partnership protections for same-sex couples. The award-winning feature documentary “for my wife” chronicles Strongs journey through tragedy to activism.

Equal Rights Washington Education Fund is responsible for this ad. http://amiprotected.org

8/19/09-by Paula Brooks
In the first step to getting the legal fight over same-sex marriage to the U.S. Supreme Court, a federal judge has set Jan. 11 as the trial date for a legal challenge to California’s Proposition 8.

Former U.S. Solicitor Theodore Olson and premier attorney David Boies filed the federal lawsuit in May on behalf of a lesbian couple from Berkeley and a gay couple from Burbank challenging the constitutionality of Proposition 8. The suit was the first in California to seek a right to same-sex marriage under the federal rather than the state constitution.

Chief U.S. District Judge Vaughn Walker also denied the motions from a coalition of three gay-rights groups, as well as of the conservative Campaign for California Families, to intervene as parties to the case. The excluded parties will also be permitted to submit advisory friend-of-the-court briefs, but will not be able to have a say in the management of the case.

However, Judge Walker did grant a motion to intervene from the City and County of San Francisco, which he said is asserting governmental interests such as lost tourism dollars, and the cost of providing social services to those against whom Proposition 8 discriminates that the plaintiffs don’t represent.

In addition, Walker took noted that California Attorney General Jerry Brown, who has argued the law is unconstitutional, is not defending the law, nor is Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger, and that they have taken no positions in the case, “I must say I’m surprised at the governor’s position in this case. … This is a matter of some importance to the people of the state and it would be useful to have his input on a constitutional matter of this magnitude,” said Walker.

Walker last month let the conservative legal group, the Alliance Defense Fund, intervene as defendants because the original defendants, Schwarzenegger, Brown and various other state and county officials have essentially declined to defend the measure’s constitutionality.

This past spring, the California Supreme Court upheld Proposition 8, which amended the California Constitution to outlaw same-sex marriage in that state, but left intact an estimated 18,000 same-sex marriages that took place last year before voters approved the measure by 52 to 48 percent. Boies and Olson, who argued on opposite sides of the Bush v. Gore case that decided the 2000 presidential election, filed their lawsuit four days before the California Supreme Court’s decision.

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8/12/09 – Equality California announced today that it has decided to wait until 2012 to push for a ballot initiative to repeal Prop 8, which banned same-sex marriage in the state, only an hour after the Courage Campaign announced that it had raised enough money to take a first step towards a 2010 campaign.

Marc Solomon, Equality California’s Marriage Director, sat down in exclusive interview with Phillip Minton of UniteTheFight.org and discussed today’s announcement and the release of  “Winning Marriage Equality Back in California: Analysis and Plan“,  EQCA’s ‘pro-2012 road map’.

“I don’t view this as the end of discussion and conversation,” Marc said about the announcement right off the bat. “We promised the LGBT community that we would let them know what we think the wisest course of action is. It’s our responsibility. That’s why we put something out today. But we’re not saying that it’s our way or the highway. We certainly can’t force anyone to adopt our position.”

“We hope people read [the analysis] and use interactive sites like Unite the Fight and others to discuss it,” he said. “I encourage everyone to read it and think about it.”

We encourage everyone interested in the Prop. 8 in 2010 vs. Prop. 8 in 2012 debate to read the the entire interview, where Minton and Solomon get into a deep discussion about what it means:

EQCA’s Marc Solomon Talks About Juggling Plans for 2012 While Working With 2010 Supporters

Solomon finished the interview by saying;

“One thing I would ask people to do is give a good, close read to what we’ve put out there,” he said, referring to their “Analysis and Plan” for 2012. “And if they have questions, send them to me and let’s discuss them.”

Equality California will continue soliciting feedback from community members and will hold a virtual town hall via livestream moderated by Bay Area Reporter Editor Cynthia Laird on Thursday, August 13, from 5 to 7 p.m. PDT. To join the town hall, visit www.livestream.com/equalitycalifornia at that time.

Yesterday ABC News White House reporter Jack Tapper asked Presidential Press Secretary Robert Gibbs about former President Bill Clinton recently saying that he’s basically in support of same-sex marriage and if has President Obama heard these comments?

What reaction does Mr. Gibbs have?

Gibbs incoherently pleads ignorance on both his and Obama’s behalf….

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Well, if you can’t get married here, you can get married elsewhere and have it recognized here. That seems to be the new push out of the California legislature at least. SB 54 was introduced by San Francisco Senator Mark Leno. The Democrat is hoping to codify what the California Supreme Court has already stated when the refused to rule on issues regarding the out of state marriages in the challenge to Prop 8.

Conservative groups are, of course, correct that this does undermine the intent of Prop 8, which is to keep gays, lesbians and transpeople second class citizens and to deny them both legal and social rights. However, this law does uphold the Constitution of the United States of America and the Full Faith and Credit Clause there in. Conservative groups are, of course, welcome to create another proposition in order to overturn this law and add a provision to the California State Constitution which would put an end to recognition of out of state marriages, and that would then trigger a lawsuit which could very easily threaten to eliminate the Defense of Marriage Act.

The Conservative groups are, of course, busy quibbling about how this goes against the will of the people. However, no matter what the will of the people might be, the very fact that it takes a law to have a valid contract from one state recognized by another state is unconstitutional.

Senator Leno is fairly certain that this bill will pass. Currently Vermont, Massachusetts, Connecticut, Maine, Iowa and New Hampshire have legal same-sex marriages.

In an effort lead by Maine’s Roman Catholic Diocese of Portland, the anti Marriage-Equality organizers of a people’s veto campaign to repeal Maine’s new same-sex marriage law say they have collected enough signatures to get the measure on the November ballot.

Stand for Marriage Maine, a coalition which includes the Diocese of Portland and other church groups, said today it has collected more than the 55,087 signatures needed for a people’s veto question, according to a statement from the group.

But the Stand for Marriage Maine Coalition says it will continue collecting signatures to make sure that enough of them survive the validation process.

“We’re asking people to continue to gather signatures so we can get overage for duplication,” Mark Mutty, a paid lobbyist for the Catholic Church and chairman of Stand for Marriage Maine, said in a statement.

“Certainly there’s a certain percentage of these that are coming from the paid signature gatherers, but the bulk of them are coming from volunteers who are circulating petitions,” Mutty also said.

In May, Maine became the fifth state in the country to allow gay and lesbian couples to marry. In Maine, non-emergency laws do not take effect until 90 days after the Legislature adjourns, and the new law wasn’t scheduled to take effect until mid-September.

Supporters of marriage equality in Maine are saying they’re not surprised that opponents have apparently collected enough signatures to put the issue on the ballot in November. But Jesse Connolly of Maine Freedom to Marry says the group will continue to focus on educating voters.

“A lot of the work that EqualityMaine and its other coalition partners did focused on volunteers talking to regular Maine voters and having them contacts their state legislators or the governor. I think we’re going to continue with that process. We’re going to explain what this law does and doesn’t do.”

Maine voters polled in April said they were almost evenly divided on the issue and both sides concur that they expect the issue to be on the ballot in November and anticipate a tough campaign.

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In a suit filed yesterday, the State of Massachusetts is challenging the constitutionality of the federal law that defines marriage as the union of a man and a woman and has sued the Federal government over the Defense of Marriage Act.

Massachusetts Attorney General Martha Coakley said the law interferes with the right of Massachusetts to define and regulate marriage as it sees fit.

“We’re taking this action today because, first, we believe that [the Defense of Marriage Act] directly interferes with Massachusetts’ long-standing sovereign authority to define and regulate the marital status of its residents,” Coakley said Wednesday afternoon.

“Massachusetts has a single category of married persons, and we view all married persons equally and identically… DOMA divides that category into two distinct and unequal classes of marriage ” she added.

The 1996 law denies federal recognition of same-sex marriage and gives states the right to refuse to recognize same-sex marriages performed in other states. Massachusetts was the first state to legalize same-sex marriage. The state is challenging Section 3 of the law, which defines marriage as “a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife” and a spouse as “a person of the opposite sex who is a husband or a wife.”

The lawsuit, filed in federal court in Boston, argues the act “constitutes an overreaching and discriminatory federal law.”

Before DOMA was passed, Coakley said, the federal government recognized that defining marital status was the “exclusive prerogative of the states.” The U.S. law’s definition of marriage denies same-sex couples access to benefits given to heterosexual married couples, including federal income tax credits, retirement benefits, health insurance coverage and Social Security payments, the lawsuit says.

A Justice Department spokesman told LGR yesterday that his department had not seen the lawsuit and could not respond until it has a chance to review it.

In March, Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders also sued the federal government over Section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act.

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President Obama seems to contradict himself when it comes to the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). He has made statements claiming he will work to repeal the act, as he has said for Don’t Ask Don’t Tell (DADT). However, his administration continues to support the act, and Obama has yet to make any effort to end DOMA.

On Sunday, June 21 Governor Paterson announced if the senators do not reach a consensus by the end of session he will order a special session for Tuesday, June 23, where the senators will be required to attend.

There are 41 bills left to vote on, including a bill that was proposed earlier in this session to legalize same-sex marriage. The governor has said that he will be putting neutral topics on the floor and emergency bills to vote.

This extra time in session can cost the taxpayers of New York up to two million tax dollars.

Governor Paterson is hoping to push through the most pertinent bills right now. However, same-sex marriage rights are not included as emergency legislation. Governor Paterson is known for backing up same-sex marriage and being an advocate for LGBT rights. Some were astounded to hear the same-sex marriage bill will not be placed on the floor in these next few days for a vote, including myself. If equality for all, truly ridding our government of discrimination, is not emergency legislation, then I need someone to explain to me what is.

Governor Paterson said he hopes to pass the same-sex marriage bill in the coming weeks.

Yet, it will not be a part of the special session if one is needed on Tuesday. The governor is taking heat for this decision from many supporters of the bill and LGBT community itself, but his main focus seems to be making sure the GOP and democrat senators are able to make a decision. They are not required to vote on the bills presented, but they will be required to show up. I think it should be required that everyone be treated the same.

Mary Catherine Benge is a writing student from Austin, Texas. You can find out more about her by finding her on facebook.

It appears that in an apparent effort to smooth over tensions in the wake of the controversy over the administration’s defense in court of the Defense of Marriage Act, the Obama Justice Department has reached out to major LGBT legal organizations and has scheduled a private meeting for next week with them.

The meeting expected to include leading gay rights groups like GLAD and Lambda Legal as both sides look for a way on how to proceed with pending DOMA cases.

Although this get-together has not been officially announced by the Justice Department yet, Tracy Russo, a spokesperson for Justice, confirmed the meeting to Greg Sargent of the The Plum Line, after he has reported that top gay rights lawyers were upset that administration lawyers had slighted their earlier requests to meet and discuss ongoing litigations involving the Defense of Marriage Act, further angering the LGBT community already stinging after the Obama Administration issued a DOMA defense brief that equated same-sex marriage to incest and pedophilia.

In that article Sargent reported that two prominent LGBT rights lawyers litigating high-profile cases against the Obama administration had their requests to meet with administration lawyers to discuss the cases rebuffed. In both cases, the lawyers were representing Federal employees whose spouses are being denied protections or benefits under the Defense of Marriage Act.

Sargent said that it remains to be seen, however, whether this summit with the DOJ lawyers will achieve in a long-term sense what gay rights lawyers told him they were and will be looking for during this meeting and that is an ongoing, less-confrontational interaction with the administration in the context of specific cases.

Whether this meeting helps resolve the riff that has developed between the LGBT community and the Obama Administration remains to be seen, but it is likely to be greeted by many in the community as a positive step forward.

http://theplumline.whorunsgov.com/justice-department/obama-administration-set-to-hold-powwow-with-big-gay-groups/

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U.S. Census Bureau officials announced Friday that married same-sex couples will be counted as married couples in the 2010 Census, reversing an earlier decision made under the Bush administration.

“They will be counted, and they ought to report the way they see themselves,” Steve Jost, a spokesman for the Census Bureau said. “In the normal process of reports coming out after the census of 2010, I think the country will have a good data set on which to discuss this phenomenon that is evolving in this country”

Census officials also said they are already identifying the technical changes needed to ensure the reliability of the information for providing an accurate counts of gay spouses.

During the last Census in 2000, same-sex couples could not get married anywhere in the United States, But when states began to sanctioned gay unions, the bureau said those legal marriages would go uncounted because the federal Defense of Marriage Act prevented the federal government from recognizing them. Marriage Equality is now the law in six states.

Since President Barack Obama took office, his administration has been under pressure from the LGBT community to include LGBT married couples in the tally. The White House on Friday announced that its interpretation of the act, known as DOMA, did not prohibit gathering the information

“The president and the administration are committed to a fair and accurate count of all Americans,” White House press secretary Robert Gibbs said. “We’re in the midst of determining the best way to ensure that gay and lesbian couples are accurately counted.”

Rea Carey, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, called the policy change a significant step.

“The census, I like to say, is on its face about numbers. But what the census is really about is telling the story of our country,” said Carey, whose group has been among those lobbying the White House. “Many people, including people in the administration, are realizing just how important it is to make sure that (lesbian and gay) Americans are not rendered invisible.”

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In the midst of the anger from LGBT community over the DOJ DOMA defense brief that equated same-sex marriage with pedophilia and incest and the inadequate response to that anger by the Obama Administration and that Administrations total lack of substantive action on concrete LGBT issues … LGBT broadcaster Michelangelo Signorile and Blogger John Aravosis are reporting that it sounds as if gay leaders have been invited to a party at the White House thrown just for them at the end of this month and are warning that leadership it would be unwise for them to attend.

Aravosis, who has been particularly vocal in his criticism of the Justice Department brief and the Obama Administrations lack of action on LGBT civil right issues, said yesterday…

It’s clear that the purpose is two-fold. First, the White House is trying, again, to surround the president with A-list gays in order to show how “gay friendly” he is – he’s even willing to give a speech in a room full of them for a full 8 minutes! And second, the White House hopes that a little champagne and fancy food will convince the A-listers to throw the rest of you overboard. Because, after all, what’s two gay service members discharged a day and an ongoing effort to legally label you as akin to pedophilia and incest, when there’s champagne to be served.

Signorile, saying that while LGBT leaders attended last weeks White House signing of the memorandum by the president to give some benefits to some federal employees was business, a cocktail party with Obama is “schmoozing and sucking up, and it’s all about buying off gay leaders by seducing them, very cheaply, so the White House can help get the DNC fundraisers back on track.”

“I believed it was appropriate for Joe Solmonese of the Human Rights Campaign to be there, along with other LGBT leaders. It was business: The president was signing an order to benefit some LGBT people (in addition to a few partner benefits for some gay and lesbian federal workers he signed an anti-discrimination order banning discrimination in federal hiring based on gender identity). I think they should be there, be cordial, and let the president know it’s not nearly enough…. But now, a cocktail party? No, that’s not business,” said Signorile.

Both Signorile and Aravosis are saying until the administration addresses such issues as ENDA, DADT and DOMA, it would not be a wise move for gay leadership to be seen partying with the president.

“The White House isn’t stupid. They know that a lot of our leaders would rather die than turn down cocktails at the big House, regardless of how many gay service members’ lives are destroyed, regardless of how many marriages are compared to incest. But we’re not stupid either. And leaders who sell out for a cocktail don’t remain leaders for long,” Aravosis said.

Signorile echoed that sentiment and said, “What we need now is real action. Not these crumbs, whether it be the census inclusion or some benefits for federal employees. We need something big, and until then, the DNC fundraisers should continue to be threatened, and nobody among the gay leadership should be partying with this president.”

So far President Obama and Democratic Congressional leadership have been play a game of hot potato with LGBT issues… Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid, D-Nevada, said that he is waiting on a legislative proposals from the White House before moving on theses matter, and needs “presidential leadership and direction” on the issues…. while President Obama has repeatedly said it is Congress that need to take the lead and has so far remained conspicuously low keyed in his advocacy of LGBT issues, despite his campaign promises to be a “fierce advocate” for these issues during the last election.

http://www.signorile.com/2009/06/gay-leaders-to-be-feted-at-white-house.html

http://www.americablog.com/2009/06/guess-whos-coming-to-dinner-white-house.html

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As New Jersey lawmakers debate approving a same-sex marriage bill in the lame-duck session after this year’s election before any newly elected officials would take office, New Jersey Governor Jon Corzine, a one time critic of Marriage Equality now says his is in favor same-sex marriage in the Garden State and would sign the bill if it makes it to his desk.

Corzine is also making “marriage equality” for gays and lesbians a major piece of his reelection campaign, and in public statement recently has pushed support of same-sex marriage.

“We believe that government should allow people the freedom to marry whomever they love,” Corzine said in his general-election kickoff speech earlier this month and at a gay-pride parade in Asbury Park, N.J., Corzine referred to his campaign and told a cheering crowd there, “Marriage equality is on the ballot. Are you going to help us make it come to pass in New Jersey?”

In December 2006, Corzine signed a civil-unions bill, calling it a proud moment, but when it came to same-sex marriage, he said, “That is not where my personal views are because I was brought up in the context of religious beliefs that would define marriage as between a man and a woman.” according to a report in the Star-Ledger of Newark.

However, in December 2008, Corzine embraced marriage for gays and lesbians after a state commission issued a report saying civil unions failed to provide equal rights. Corzine then said the inequality is a civil-rights issue that “must be addressed sooner rather than later.”

An April, Quinnipiac University poll showed New Jersey residents supported gay marriage, 49 percent to 43 percent.

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Nonetheless, the economic downturn has hit New Jersey hard and Corzine is facing a tough re-election challenge in November. New Jersey voters are angry over high unemployment and a state budget that increased income taxes for high earners, boosted wine and liquor taxes, trimmed a popular tax rebate program, raises various fees and cuts many state services. A recent poll shows Corzine’s Republican challenger, Chris Christie with a 10-point lead in a state where registered Democrats outnumber Republicans by a wide margin.

So Corzine is focusing his campaign on issues that traditionally divide Democrats and Republicans in New Jersey… same-sex marriage, abortion, gun control, and the environment.

The momentum for Marriage Equality has grown recently, especially in the Northeast, and same-sex marriage is now legal in Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Maine, Vermont, Connecticut, and Iowa.

In a May 12 Republican primary debate, Christie said he believed that marriage “has to be between one man and one woman and that we should keep it that way in the state of New Jersey,” and has said he would veto any Marriage Equality bill that came before him.

However, even if Christie should win, he might not have the chance to use that veto, New Jersey Assemblyman Reed Gusciora (D., Mercer), who has sponsored the current Marriage Equality bill that would allow same-sex marriage, has said his bill will probably come up in the lame-duck legislative session just after November’s election. “It’s probably going to be a reality sooner than later,” Gusciora said.

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Lez Get Real has just learned that delegates for the New York State Bar Association meeting in Cooperstown today, have adopted a resolution asking New York state legislators to give full marriage rights to same-sex couples, reversing their previous position on same-se marriage saying that New York could take other actions to guarantee those rights, such as recognizing domestic partnerships or civil unions.

“It is important to afford same-sex couples the ability to obtain the comprehensive set of rights and responsibilities available to opposite-sex couples. The Assembly has passed the Governor’s Program Bill,” said New York State Bar Association President Michael E. Getnick of Utica, and he called upon the New York Senate to take action on this matter.

The delegates also said that New York’s Domestic Relations law should also be changed to recognize same-sex marriages performed in other states.

Theatrics in the New York State Senate over the pass two weeks however have made it unlikely the same-sex marriage bill will get a vote.

Just in from Keystone Progress comes word that Pennsylvania State Senator John Eichelberger made the following comments in his radio debate with Senator Daylin Leach about their dueling marriage equality bills. Senator Eichelberger’s bill would amend the constitution of Pennsylvania to define marriage as between a man and a woman.

Here’s a partial transcript of Eichelberger’s remarks. Times are approximate.

You can listen to the whole debate at: http://www.whyy.org/91FM/radiotimes.html
21:15
Leach: How would he [Eichelberger] want to encourage stability in gay couples?
Eichelberger: I wouldn’t. I mean they can practice whatever sexual activity they like to practice, but there’s no reason to give them special consideration. We don’t give them special consideration in Pennsylvania for any reason. Why in the world would we allow them to marry?
22:05
Leach: How would he want to encourage stability in gay couples?
Eichelberger: There is no reason to encourage that type of behavior in Pennsylvania.
24:20
Eichelberger: That comes back to the definition of family and that’s where we differ. We can call all kinds of things families. I mean, we can say a 3 party marriage is a family, or 7 or 8 people or marrying younger and younger children these days .
25:00
Host: Are you saying that by their very nature homosexual relationships are dysfunctional?
Eichelberger: [Pause] Ummmm. I guess I would say that. I would say that.
38:50
Eichelberger: This changes the definition of marriage, allowing same-sex, and then like I said, 5-10 years from now it’ll be polygamy, marrying younger people, it’ll be whatever…It won’t be a 6 year old, it’ll be a 15 year old, then it’ll be a 14 year old, then it’ll be a 13 year old.
49:40
Leach: Should our only policy towards [same-sex] couples be one of punishment, to somehow prove that they’ve done something wrong?
Eichelberger: They’re not being punished. We’re allowing them to exist, and do what every American can do. We’re just not rewarding them with any special designation.

Sadly, that’s pretty consistent with the rhetoric embodied in the Department of Justice briefing issued by the Obama Administration on the defense of DOMA. It is an interesting week when Arlen Specter publicly supports the repeal of DADT (but doesn’t offer to sponsor the bill) and Obama links gay marriages to incest and pedophilia.
Back to Pennsylvania. This is the rhetoric we can expect over the foreseeable future. What you, dear readers, need to consider is that this is the mentality facing HB 300 which would amend the Human Relations Act to include protections based on sexual orientation, gender identity and gender expression.

An elected official saying we have the privilege of existing? Existing? Are you kidding me? This is what passes for civil discourse in our society among those elected to lead us. The flip side of the coin is that “we” would have the ability to deny us the right to exist, isn’t it? That’s horrifying. It is one thing to disapprove of my identity or believe it is a choice, but quite another thing to suggest that I am permitted to exist in spite of my identity. Should I be grateful to Senator Eichelberger for not condoning someone taking away my existence?

Think about this. Seriously. You are allowed to exist. Your daughter, son, sibling or dear friends are allowed to exist. That’s where we are right now in this debate.

You can take action with a message to Senator Eichelberger via Keystone Equality.

I think you need to do more. You need to call YOUR Senator today or Monday and raise the roof over this outrageous comment. Here’s the link to find your Senator. I called Senator Fontana and demanded he address this with Senator Eichelbeger and the Republican and Senate leadership. No way is this okay. I do not exist at the whim of Pennsylvania’s Republicans or the hatemongerers masking as the ardent defenders of marriage.

How far will you let elected officials go before you get involved? Incest? Pedophilia? Your existence?

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At the rate things are going, Vice President Joe Biden will be standing in a room surrounded by tables and talking to the paint. Some might joke that he does that anyway. However, this may be one of those cases where the real danger is in that actually happening. National Stonewall Democrats have pulled their sponsorship of the upcoming fund raiser headlined by Vice President Biden over a whole host of issues from funding for their activities to the recent Defense of Marriage Act brief. Ben Smith from Politico reported on this issue, including printing the email exchange concerning it.

When it comes to funding, one has to wonder if part of the problem is that the current head of the Democratic Party hails from one of the most homophobic and restrictive on gay rights states in the union- Virginia. What is more, even Governor Tim Kane is only part time when it comes to running the Democratic Party right now.

Money from the LGBTI community, also known as Pink Money, has been disproportionately heading towards the DNC over the years. Indeed, Governor Howard Dean of Vermont launched his 2004 Presidential bid using a substantial amount of money from the gays, lesbians and transpeople in the country. Indeed, the amount of money that the LGBTI community funneled into the Obama campaign likely tipped the scales in his battle to get the nomination. Yet, now, everything will be seen through the lens of this particular brief, and in light of President Obama’s lack of action on issues that many gays, lesbians and transpeople find important. For those who often state that President Obama has a lot to deal with right now, they forget that DOMA adds to the cost of living for gays and lesbians. They forget that Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell often means finding oneself out of a job in a weak economy.

Somewhere lost in the noise is the fact that these issues effect the economy. Many gays and lesbians pay far more for health care than they can necessarily afford simply because of DOMA. For many transpeople, the costs of transitioning are so great that they are unable to do it at more than a snail’s pace, often risking their own lives in order to transition without the massive expense of the medical bills. Somewhere, lost in the Administration, is that gays, lesbians and transpeople have a greater interest in the reforms that President Obama proposed than the average person because we hurt so much from the discrimination that exists. It is time that President Obama, Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi and Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid realize that those Christian Conservatives out there are not going to follow along if we delay rights for the LGBTI community and it is time that they stand up to those groups. Any and all religious organization, church, or group that donates to any political cause should have their tax free status revoked. If they have the money to fund advertisements, they have money to pay taxes. If they allow petitions to be signed in their churches, then they should pay the same taxes as I would if I allowed others to sign petitions in my house or place of business. It is time to put this intrusion of religion into politics to bed and tell these groups that they have the money to spare since they are wasting it not feeding, clothing and helping the needy at a time when charitable donations are on the decline.

Stampp Corbin, President Obama’s Co-Chair for LGBT Issues during the campaign, will not be attending the fund raiser on the 25th of June either. He stated emphatically “You really are talking out of both sides of your mouth and my community knows it.” Mr. Corbin will be joining a long list of people who will not be attending the fund raiser including Peter Shumlin, who is expected to run for Governor of Vermont, Andy Towle (Towle Road), David Mixner and Pam Spaulding. The National Stonewall Democrats join the Human Rights Campaign in pulling support from this fund raiser.

Untitled-1″The campaign is not about Schubert Flint. It’s about the definition of marriage in Maine. Certainly it appears to us that the majority of people, notwithstanding what the Legislature and the governor did, support the traditional definition of marriage and want it to stay that way.”

This is according to Jeff Flint. In California, Mr. Flint helped to organize the Proposition 8 anti-marriage equality movement. Of course, he is also wrong on this issue since most polling show that Maine citizens are either evenly split on this issue or slightly favor same-sex marriage. Schubert Flint, the group which Mr. Flint is part of, will not be sending personnel to Maine, but will provide a certain amount of logistical support from California. Literally, this will be a Prop 8 style battle of smear tactics which will only serve to reinforce the move to legalize marriage rights through the legislatures and courts instead of allowing these issues to go before the voters simply because people will want to avoid the cesspit of slime, filth and muck that the Prop 8 purveyors will be peddling in the pose of defending the sanctity of marriage. After all, it is preferable to allow and forgive a man like Senator John Ensign of Nevada for violating not only his marriage vows, but that of his mistress, and for violating the law by buying her off than it is to allow two people of the same-sex to get married. Of course, in the eyes of God (or any host of deities), these individuals are already getting married. This is, after all, not a fight about the sanctity of marriage, but the sanctity of hate. These are people who still want to have the right to hate gays, lesbians and transpeople. Of course, there are people who will now point out that this is not about hating the person, but rather the behavior. According to Leviticus, it is wrong to eat shellfish; for a woman to go out without a head scarf; and to eat any animal that has a cloven hoof such as pig.

Of course, much of this is being funded by the religious quarters. They should have their tax exempt status removed. If they have the money to squander on ad campaigns to remove rights from people, or to advertise in general, then they have the money to pay taxes. The Catholic Church is violating the law by allowing for signatures to be gathered at their churches in order to overturn the law which granted marriage equality to Maine’s citizens. Those actions may actually endanger the signature drive when they are turned in. If they were deemed to be gathered illegally, then the whole petition may be thrown out.

Maine Freedom To Marry has hired their own people to push back against a Prop 8 style campaign and are organized for such a battle. Jesse Connolly will be taking a leave of absence as the Chief of Staff for Maine House Speaker Hannah Pingree’s office to run the push back against this Prop 8 style campaign. In 2005, he successfully lead the Maine Won’t Discriminate campaign to keep Maine’s gay rights laws intact.

Maine has a voter veto system. If the anti-marriage equality groups can gather almost sixty thousand signatures to put the measure on the ballot by September (three months from now) then the measure will be voted on in 2010. A similar attempt was made after civil unions were passed in Maine, and that was unsuccessful.

Yesterday, The White House announced it was looking at ways to include same-sex marriages, unions and partnerships in 2010 Census data and said it has directed the Census Bureau to determine what changes would be needed in its counting software to allow for same-sex marriage data to be released early in 2011 with other detailed demographic information from the decennial count.

White House spokesman Ben LaBolt said “the administration continues to make progress on the president’s longstanding commitment to promoting equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Americans.”

While The Census Bureau has long collected data on same-sex marriages when people chose to report it, the bureau hasn’t historically included that data in the official census. During the last count, the Bush administration interpreted the federal Defense of Marriage Act that says the federal government can only recognize a marriage only between a man and a woman, as prohibiting them including Same-sex couples in the count.

The Obama administration was under pressure to change the Census policy from the LGBT community and from some lawmakers.

Rep. Mike Quigley (D., Ill.) sent a letter Tuesday to President Obama, urging him to order the bureau to release same-sex marriage data as part of its standard tabulation of the 2010 Census, joining the lead of Democratic Reps. Tammy Baldwin of Wisconsin, Steve Israel of New York and 51 other lawmakers who wrote to White House Budget Director Peter Orszag last month, asking him to work with the bureau’s parent agency, the Commerce Department, to reconsider the policy.

In a joint statement today, Reps. Baldwin, Israel, Frank and Polis said, “We applaud President Obama for taking this action, further demonstrating his commitment to LGBT equality. This decision strengthens the integrity of the national census, a vital tool of our democracy. It is welcome recognition that same-sex legally married couples and all LGBT couples and their families are integral to the American fabric.”

The original Census Bureau plan for handling same-sex marriage marriages in the 2010 Census was to follow the procedures employed in 2000, and the bureau had planned to use a its computer program to categorized spouses in same-sex marriages as unmarried partners.

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File this one under your government in action… The political circus in Albany continued the week as a GOP coup to seize control of New York Senate has ended up in a 31-31 deadlock and the National Organization for Marriage (NOM) announced they have put out a $500,000 dollar bounty on the head of any New York GOP Senator who crosses party lines and votes for a Marriage Equality bill presently being considered by that State.

Last week after Republicans gained control of the New York senate last week when two Democratic senators switched parties in an effort to unseat Democratic Senate leader Thomas Smith… the fate of same-sex marriage legislation approved by the New York State assembly last month became questionable.

Then one of the coups Democratic defectors opposite defected… leaving the New York Senate paralyzed and started speculation that Republicans looking to regain control of the Senate will use the bill as a bargaining chip to get other Democrats defect back to them so they can force their version of a state budget through the Senate.

And now, the National Organization for Marriage announced that they have set up a Political Action Committee for New York, and are asking for contributions so they can use the money punish any Republican who vote for the Marriage Equality Bill.

If the bill passes through the Senate, New York Governor David Paterson, a Democrat, has already expressed his willingness to sign the bill to make New York the seventh state to recognize gay marriage, but presently the whole legislative process in the Empire State is shut down…

Germanys Iron Chancellor, Otto Von Bismarck, once said, “The less people know about how sausages and laws are made, the better they’ll sleep at night.”…. Bismarck must have been a prophet as well as a politician

Wisconsin Representative Tammy Baldwin will be on the Rachel Maddow Show (9pm EST) in order to discuss President Barack Obama’s signing today of a memorandum instructing the Executive Branch to extend most of the benefits that one gets while employed by the Federal Government to partners of gays and lesbians. Representative Baldwin is one of three openly gay or lesbian members of Congress the other two being, most famously, Barney Frank of Massachusetts and Jared Polis of Colorado. Rep. Baldwin will also being discussing her partner Lauren Azar.

President Obama, at 5:45pm, signed a memorandum which is not an executive order. This memorandum is directed towards the Office of Personnel Management, and it is intended to extend what benefits can be legally given to same-sex couples as constrained by the Defense of Marriage Act. This memorandum does direct Secretary Hilary Clinton to do the same thing as Director John Berry of the OPM, Secretary Clinton already issued a similar order earlier in the year. The request also goes out to all other department heads to determine which of their benefits can be legally extended to domestic partners.

President Obama did call upon Congress to repeal DOMA stating that it is discriminatory and interferes with State’s Rights. He did, however, issue his regrets that he could not extend all benefits to domestic partners of gays and lesbians in the country.

President Obama also endorsed the Domestic Partners Benefits and Obligations Act of 2009. This act would extend domestic partner benefits to all employees of the Federal Government. It should be noted that this legislation may have a similar effect as all other Civil Service bills and only cover employees of the Legislative and Executive Branch. The Judicial Branch does not recognize all civil service laws.

Many feel that President Obama has been forced into some defensive action to prevent his base of support from totally splintering. While it is true that either Congress or the Courts must overturn DOMA and Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, it has not seemed like the Executive Branch has been entirely willing to work towards that end either. Senator Obama while running for President stated repeatedly his support for gay, lesbian and transgender rights, many have grown frustrated with his lack of vocal support since then. The briefing filed in order to attempt to end Smelt v. United States was a tipping point in this case even though the cases cited in that brief may have been something of a smokescreen. It is possible that the lawyer involved in defending the government may have been attempting to get those problematic and vile cases deemed irrelevant to lawsuits involving anything going up against DOMA. Still, that brief only let loose a flood of growing frustration which the President is having to now deal with.

After today’s signing ceremony in the Oval Office Congresswoman Baldwin said, “President Obama’s orders today will make a real difference in people’s lives. Domestic partners, parents, and their children will now receive a number of meaningful benefits currently granted other federal employees.

LGBT Americans yearn for full equality. After last week’s U.S. Department of Justice filing seeking to dismiss a challenge to the federal Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), many in the LGBT community, myself included, were profoundly disappointed. After that disappointment, I was heartened to hear the President make a strong case today for the repeal of DOMA.

It was also gratifying to hear the President proudly announce his support for my Domestic Partners Benefits and Obligations Act of 2009. I look forward to working with him and House and Senate leaders as we work toward passage of this legislation that will extend to the same-sex partners of Federal employees all of the benefits currently enjoyed by the opposite-sex spouses of Federal employees.

President Obama said today that his Memorandum is just a start. I agree that it is an important step in the quest for full equality for LGBT Americans. I welcome the challenge and the President’s support.”

This is a small step. It is an important one. However, this is not the end of this.

As LGBT community leaders, including the Human Rights Campaign, the largest gay civil rights group in Washington, pull out of a Democratic National Committee LGBT fundraiser planned for next week in Washington, last night White House officials said President Obama will announce later today that he is extending some federal benefits to include unmarried domestic partners of federal workers, including same-sex partners.

The State Department last month announced a similar gesture for State Department employees.

However, because the Defense of Marriage Act prohibits the federal government from extending health and retirement benefits to same-sex couples, health benefits do not appear to be among those that are planned to be extended.

Most in the LGBT community are greeting the move with skepticism this morning, as the order appears to be one of several lower level moves the administration had already promised gay groups were coming earlier this month. The timing of the announcement also appears to have been made last evening make sure it hit MSNBC Rachel Maddow show, which is widely viewed by members of the LGBT community.

It is doubtful that this move will silence many of Obama’s LGBT critics who are incensed over his inaction on gay rights issues as promised during his campaign and his Justice Departments defending in court the Defense of Marriage Act, which denies federal benefits to same-sex married couples, and by the administration’s linkage in that defense of same-sex marriages to marriages between cousins or children.

Fierce Advocates reluctance to repeal the U.S. military’s “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy on gay service members … after Obama promised during the campaign to repeal it … has also been a sore point among LGBT activists. The order Obama is to sign today would not apply to military men and women in uniform.

Most in the LGBT community are now demanding that Obama go beyond the small potato issues and toward the substantive issues of ending “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” and the Defense of Marriage Act and supporting Marriage Equality and most are saying his announcement last night will not be enough to save next weeks fund raiser.

Politco’s Ben Smith quoted the executive director of the Empire State Pride Agenda, Alan Van Capelle, as saying, “Welcome to 1999. How revolutionary of the White House to give benefits to same-sex couples, when two-thirds of conservative Wall Street are already doing it. What an achievement. It’s just one of the things that should have been done in January. If the President makes the announcement tomorrow, it will still fall short of what LGBT people are expecting from this administration.”

Van Capelle, is among those dropped out the Biden event.

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Dr. Rachel Maddow and NBC’s Chuck Todd discussed the announcement by the White House to extend marriage and other benefits to the same-sex partners of Federal employees. Mr. Todd appeared on the show via telephone. The announcement was made with less than twenty-four hours to go until President Obama signs either the executive order or the memorandum. They discuss the difference.

Today Congresswoman Tammy Baldwin speaking at the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) in observation and celebration of LGBT Pride Month, made the following statement…

“Last week the Department of Justice filed a motion to dismiss a lawsuit challenging the constitutionality of DOMA. I was profoundly disappointed by this action, particularly coming from this administration. I still take President Obama at his word that he is committed to the repeal of DOMA. I also recognize that he cannot do it alone. Congress has the responsibility on its shoulders to pass legislation that would give the opportunity to the President to keep his word and ensure that all married people, including those in same-sex marriages, enjoy the same rights under federal law.”

It was just thirteen word. They stated simply that the President is to sign an executive order extending federal benefits to all same-sex couples within the Federal government. That is, for the gay, lesbian and transgender employee partners. He shall be doing so at 5:45pm on Wednesday. This comes at a time when the upcoming LGBT fundraiser is becoming a lonely affair. The departure of Andy Towle (Towle Road), David Mixner and Pam Spaulding (Pams Houseblend), and supposedly large groups such as the Human Rights Campaign are threatening to mean that Vice President Joe Biden will be giving his speech before an empty room.

It is not just the growing flack concerning the wording in the Department of Justice’s brief asking for the dismissal of Smelt v. United States, a defense that made Rush Limbaugh go blue in the face out of joy in trying to explain to us ‘boys, girls, and confused’ that Obama was on our side. A defense that may have been little more than a great big snafu (please refer to the enlistedman’s definition of that word), and little more than a cut and paste job by a hold over from the Bush Administration. It is the growing frustration in the administration that the President has not been pushing for an end of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell despite stating that he wants to put it to an end. There is a strong feeling that the pressure is building.

What makes it worse is that this particular briefing comes at a time when we are learning that hate crimes against gays, lesbians and transpeople are on the rise. They are at their highest since 1999 in terms of murders, and it is clear that this is getting worse. This kind of briefing simply just adds to the fire rather than damping it down.

But will this be enough to quiet the growing descent in the Democratic base? Unfortunately, it more than likely will not be. While this grants those benefits to the federal employees, it would be far better to simply push for an end to DOMA so that this executive order, which incidentally does go against DOMA, would not be necessary. It is like taking a thimble and hoping that much water will be enough to stop the leak. It is time for President Barack Obama to take bold action and ask Congress to pass the Military Readiness Enhancement Act and to repeal DOMA or at least not defend DOMA in the courts.

It is a small step. It is a welcome step, but it is not likely to appease those who are growing frustrated with not only the President, but Congress as well.

Governor Howard Dean, who in 2000 signed the country’s first civil union law, appeared on The Rachel Maddow Show in order to discuss the Smelt v. United States case, and the Department of Justice’s filing to have that case dismissed. Dr Maddow (doctor of political science) and Dr. Dean (doctor of medicine) discussed how this brief from the DOJ could ultimately force the Obama Administration to get with the program and actually tackle LGBTI issues head on. Perhaps Dr. Maddow also caught onto the same vibe that many here at LGR have in calling President Obama the Fierce Advocate.

For those who do not know, the DOJ used cases involving child marriages and language invoking incest to ask for the suit Smelt v. US to be dismissed. DOMA is unconstitutional under the Full Faith and Credit clause of the United States Constitution.

Last month, the Council of the District of Columbia passed an ordinance recognizing same-sex marriages legal in other jurisdictions. While Congress has oversight if it acts within 30 days, the ordinance is expected to become law with no action from Capitol Hill.

However, a group of DC ministers last week asked the DC Election Commission to give them a voice in determining this matter and asked that they be allowed to call a referendum on the issue allowing these churchmen to attempt to prevent the same-sex marriage recognition act from being implemented in the District.

But The Washington City Paper is reporting today that we have scored a victory for Marriage Equality in the District of Columbia, and the DC Board of Elections and Ethics has ruled that referendum on recognizing gay marriages will be not allowed because it would be an attempt to authorize discrimination prohibited by the city’s Human Rights Act.

“It is clear that the Referendum’s Proposers would, in contravention of the [Human Rights Act], strip same-sex couples of the rights and responsibilities of marriage that they were afforded by virtue of entering into valid marriages elsewhere, and that the Council intends to clearly make available to them here in the District, simply on the basis of their sexual orientation. Because the Referendum would authorize discrimination prohibited by the [Human Rights Act], it is not a proper subject for referendum, and may not be accepted by the Board”, said the order…

Tim Tracy, an attorney for the anti-gay, Arizona based Alliance Defense Fund said that will be a lawsuit….

“You have a non-discrimination law and DC marriage laws that have existed side by side for 32 years… And only now in the last two weeks has anyone ever suggested that those DC marriage laws, defining marriage as between a man and a woman, somehow constitutes discrimination under the Human Rights Act, Tracy said.

http://www.washingtoncitypaper.com/blogs/citydesk/2009/06/15/dc-gay-marriage-referendum-rejected-by-elections-board/

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With the LGBT community up in arms over the Obama administration’s Justice Department brief supporting the federal Defense of Marriage Act… after Obama pledged during his campaign for the White House to repeal the law, The LA Times is reporting that the mayors of Los Angeles and San Francisco have added their voices in condemning the move…

“I think it’s a big mistake,” San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom said shortly before he and his Los Angeles counterpart, Antonio Villaraigosa, kicked off the annual L.A. Pride parade in West Hollywood.

“I’m concerned about some of the arguments being made by the Justice Department,” Villaraigosa said.

Newsom and Villaraigosa, who maybe possible rivals in next year’s Democratic primary for governor, however were both very careful to not directly confront Obama on the issue.

But The Times is also saying that gay rights groups in LA are being far more blunt… and say Rea Carey, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Action Fund, called the administration’s defense of the law unacceptable.

“Unfortunately, the malicious and outrageous arguments and language used in the Justice Department’s brief are only serving to inflame and malign the humanity of same-sex couples and our families,” Carey said.

President Obama shocked and disappointed many of us in the LGBT community this past week when his Department of Justice defended the Defense Of Marriage Act in court by saying in their brief that the courts shouldn’t consider Loving v. Virginia, the miscegenation case in which the Supreme Court ruled that it is unconstitutional to ban interracial marriages, when looking at gay civil rights cases, that the Supreme Court decisions of Roemer and Lawrence shouldn’t be interpreted to give us rights in any other area, that DOMA doesn’t discriminate against Lesbian and Gay couples because it also discriminates about straight unmarried couples, and invoked incest and people marrying children…

The Daily Kos’ Jed Lewison has compiled some remember when clips from the campaign in which Obama forcefully advocated equal rights for gay Americans and stated his support for strong civil unions with all the benefits of marriage. Watch:

“Through clever and constant application of propaganda, people can be made to see paradise as hell, and also the other way around, to consider the most wretched sort of life as paradise.”

- Adolf Hitler, Mein Kampf

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Despite earlier reports to the contrary, organizer Cleve Jones has said permits have been secured for the National March for Equality, also known as “Meet on the Mall for Equality,” for October 10-11, 2009 in Washington, DC.

Jones said, “We should be saying, ‘Enough of this, we demand full equality under civil law.’ We should be marching, engaging in nonviolent civil disobedience every day. We have a window, but it’s already starting to close. If you think you’re going to get anything out of Obama in the second half of his term, you don’t know anything about political history. In a year, he’ll be in full re-election mode.”

Jones conceived of the NAMES Project AIDS Memorial Quilt which has become, at 54 tons, the world’s largest piece of community folk art as of 2009. In 1983, at the onset of the AIDS pandemic Jones co-founded the San Francisco AIDS Foundation which has grown into one of the largest and most influential People with AIDS advocacy organizations in the United States.

Jones is not the only activist who’s called for a march on Washington. David Mixer, a gay Democratic activist, has called for a march for marriage equality in D.C. in November.

Robin Tyler, plaintiff in the California marriage lawsuits, has also been calling for a Washington march for some time, but previously said she thought that 2010 would be a more suitable year because it would give participants more time to prepare and put pressure on Congress before the mid-term elections.

Nevertheless, Jones said the march should take place this year because he wants Congress and the administration to advance on LGBT issues before the end of 2010.
Joe Solmonese, president of the Human Rights Campaign, said recently, “we shouldn’t wait” for a march in October “to do the critical grassroots organizing that can happen today.”

“As we understand it, the purpose behind the call for a march is to organize grassroots representation from every congressional district in the country and encourage people to organize in their home districts,” he said. “We encourage such efforts, but believe that organizing can’t wait until October, in fact, it can begin today.”

Solmonese said HRC has already been engaging in this kind of grassroots work in congressional districts.

This will be the fifth march on Washington for LGBT rights. The first was in 1979 and drew 75,000 people. The second, in 1987, drew half a million and was a reaction to the Reagan administration’s lack of action on HIV/AIDS. The NAMES project AIDS Memorial Quilt (an idea conceived by Jones) was displayed for the first time during that march. The third march in 1993 and the Millenium March in 2000 drew a million people each.

President Obama and the Democratic leaders of Congress have turned their backs, forgotten their promises and betrayed our community’s trust. They give us platitudes like inviting us to Easter Egg Hunts and telling us they support Pride month, all the while House Speaker Nancy Pelosi states that repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act is “not a priority,” and The Obama Justice Department issues homophobically worded briefs in its defense.President Obama promised to end the Don’t Ask-Don’t Tell policy during his election campaign, yet he ignores the appeals of brave American warriors serving in our military as his Department of Defense drums out them of the services for being gay or lesbian. Yet all the while Obama and the Democratic National Committee treat our community as if we their ATM and temporary labor service, coming to us time and again for money and election workers.

Personally, I think a combination of both approaches is necessary… We should be calling out the Administration, our congresspeople and the DNC everyday… by phone… e mail… and by setting up face to face meetings with them, both here in Washington DC and when they are in their home districts, to discuss our issues… and when they wont give us those meeting… we should protest them, stop sending them checks and actively oppose any other legislative agenda items supported by them at every opportunity presented till they do meet with us and address our concerns.

But we also need to show our numbers, strength and unity in the streets… to the Congress, the Administration, the media and the American public … and the Jones March would be the prefect vehicle to do this.

A promotional video… Watch:

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Thursday, The U.S. Justice Department moved to dismiss the first gay marriage case filed in a federal court, arguing that the specific legal questions raised by the couple do not belong in federal court….

In their brief the Obama Administration argued that the courts shouldn’t consider Loving v. Virginia, the miscegenation case in which the Supreme Court ruled that it is unconstitutional to ban interracial marriages, when looking at gay civil rights cases, that the Supreme Court decisions of Roemer and Lawrence shouldn’t be interpreted to give us rights in any other area, that DOMA doesn’t discriminate against Lesbian and Gay couples because it also discriminates about straight unmarried couples, and invoked incest and people marrying children…

The courts have followed this principle, moreover, in relation to the validity of marriages performed in other States. Both the First and Second Restatements of Conflict of Laws recognize that State courts may refuse to give effect to a marriage, or to certain incidents of a marriage, that contravene the forum State’s policy. See Restatement (First) of Conflict of Laws § 134; Restatement (Second) of Conflict of Laws § 284.5 And the courts have widely held that certain marriages performed elsewhere need not be given effect, because they conflicted with the public policy of the forum. See, e.g., Catalano v. Catalano, 170 A.2d 726, 728-29 (Conn. 1961) (marriage of uncle to niece, “though valid in Italy under its laws, was not valid in Connecticut because it contravened the public policy of th[at] state”); Wilkins v. Zelichowski, 140 A.2d 65, 67-68 (N.J. 1958) (marriage of 16-year-old female held invalid in New Jersey, regardless of validity in Indiana where performed, in light of N.J. policy reflected in statute permitting adult female to secure annulment of her underage marriage); In re Mortenson’s Estate, 316 P.2d 1106 (Ariz. 1957) (marriage of first cousins held invalid in Arizona, though lawfully performed in New Mexico, given Arizona policy reflected in statute declaring such marriages “prohibited and void”).

The fact that States have long had the authority to decline to give effect to marriages performed in other States based on the forum State’s public policy strongly supports the constitutionality of Congress’s exercise of its authority in DOMA.

Now here is the official White House response sent to Lez Get Real yesterday about the Obama Justice Department’s decision to defend the Defense of Marriage Act in court…

“As it generally does with existing statutes, the Justice Department is defending the law on the books in court. The President has said he wants to see a legislative repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act because it prevents LGBT couples from being granted equal rights and benefits. However, until Congress passes legislation repealing the law, the administration will continue to defend the statute when it is challenged in the justice system.”

Presidents Bush, Reagan and Clinton all filed briefs in court opposing current federal law they considered unconstitutional. Obama could have done the same. This case should say it all about him….

Obama’s Motion to Dismiss Marriage case

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California Attorney General Jerry Brown has filed a brief in support of the lawsuit being brought forth by David Boies and Ted Olson. Brown, who is named in the lawsuit, appears to be declining to mount a defense, and are, instead, supporting the case as it is brought forward. According to Equality California, they are currently urging Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger to do the same via his lawyer. Currently, there is no one defending this lawsuit. If Schwarzenegger chooses not to defend it, the suit may go forward with all the people involved in the defense siding with the plaintiffs in the suit.

California’s Prop 8 has had a mixture of effects for the LGBTI community. To begin with, it has certainly energized and unified us. Secondly, it has brought the issue of marriage rights to the forefront and made it much harder for people to push to have the issue of marriage rights brought to the voters because of the nasty way the campaign was fought.

New York State Senator Pedro Espada is confident that the marriage equality bill that he helped sponsor will now have its day on the floor. Espada, who is currently the acting Lt. Governor of New York and President of the State Senate, recently joined the Republicans in overthrowing the Democrats and installing the Republicans as the ruling party in the State Senate. The legality of this move is questionable since neither Espada nor Monseratte actually left the Democrats to either become Republicans or Independents and caucus with the Republicans. Both men are under investigation for a variety of offenses. They stated that their reasoning for this parliamentary coup was the Democratic leadership’s unwillingness to work with the Republicans.

The fate of same-sex marriage in New York is questionable if Espada and his Republican allies bring the bill to the floor. While State Senator Thomas Duane believes that there are enough votes for it to pass, former Senate Majority Leader Malcolm Smith was less than certain. This lead to his unwillingness to bring the legislation forward. Espada is for marriage equality, Monseratte is against it, and a number of State Senators are on the fence about this issue. New Yorkers are mostly in favor of the move directly to marriage equality. Should New York legalize marriage rights for all of its citizens, it will join Vermont, New Hampshire and Maine in doing so through the legislative process, and Iowa, Connecticut and Massachusetts who legalized it through the judicial process.

The Republicans in New York may be more than willing to bring this bill to the floor in order to ensure that it is a failure even though their leader has made it clear that he does not plan to demand a particular direction on the vote from his party membership. Most of the opposition to marriage equality comes from the Republicans, and the Democrats are split on the issue.

The Human Rights Campaign has organizers on the ground in New York trying to salvage the marriage equality bill that has been making its way through the Senate’s committee process. The HRC issued a statement that they do not believe that these defections had anything to do with same-sex marriage, and neither of these men are staunchly opposed to marriage equality. Senator Espada is currently under investigation for corruption in regards to a medical business that he was running up until recently. Senator Monserrate is currently under investigation for slashing his partner, Karla Giraldo, in the face with a broken wine glass. If he is convicted, he will be automatically expelled from the Senate.

Shortly after this parliamentary coup occurred, Senator Espada was installed as the Senate President which makes him the acting Lt. Governor of New York. According to NY1, Espada is in favor of the marriage equality bill, but Monserrate is undecided.

The courts have been asked to rule on the legality of this parliamentary coup since it occurred after adjournment and not before. The other problem is that neither Espada nor Monserrate have changed parties. Instead, they are still Democrats, but voted with the Republicans to replace Malcolm Smith with Dean Skelos. Senator Skelos has stated that he intends to vote against marriage equality in New York, but that he will demand that the Republicans in the Senate vote with him. What is unclear is whether or not Skelos, as Majority Leader in the Senate, would be willing to even let the bill come to the floor.

According to HRC Field Director Marty Rouse, this puts the New York legislature completely in flux. Assemblyman Daniel O’Donnell appears to be optimistic that this bill will pass. Most polls show that New Yorkers are in support of marriage equality currently. These polls show a great deal of support in Upstate New York, which is typically more conservative than the area around New York City.

How this plays out will depend a lot on the courts. What this may end up doing is just disrupting the New York legislature and ultimately revert control back to the Democrats who will undoubtably end up putting both Espada and Monseratte on the lowest level committees available to them.

http://wcbstv.com/local/senate.gop.albany.2.1037014.html

http://nymag.com/daily/intel/2009/06/assemblyman_daniel_odonnell_i.html

It appears a Rehearing Petition has been filed with the Supreme Court of California on the issue of constitutionality of Proposition 8.

The following is an email notification from the court:

STRAUSS v. HORTON
Case: S168047, Supreme Court of California

Date (YYYY-MM-DD): 2009-06-05
Event Description: Rehearing petition filed

We don’t have many details on this… but here’s the whole docket as of today…

We received this after close of business at the court, so we could not follow up to see exactly just what this all means , but we did give the local news station here in the Bay Area, KRON 4, a call and asked if they were also covering this story.

They said hadn’t heard about this development yet, but were, needless to say, going to be looking into this story now as well, so we’re hoping to see some news coverage on this from them soon.

There’s not really much hope the Justices will agree to a rehearing, but I guess you got to try.

Stay tuned for updates as we get them.

In a stunning reversal of fortunes for New York Democrats… two Democratic Senators have defected, and allowed Senate Republicans to stage a coup, seizing control of the New York State Senate.

This turn of events puts the future of Marriage Equality in the Empire State in serious jeopardy.

The New York Times is reporting that a boisterous leadership fight exploded on the floor of the Senate around 3 p.m., when two Democrats, Pedro Espada Jr. of the Bronx and Hiram Monserrate of Queens, joined the 30 Senate Republicans in a motion that would displace Democrats as the party in control

In a statement emailed to reporters at 3:20 PM, Senate Republicans quickly claimed that they were on the verge of controlling the chamber.

As the events unfolded on the floor, Democratic Senate leader Malcolm A. Smith of Queens, consulted with his staff in the hall just off the Senate chamber. When asked what was occurring, he responded, “I’m trying to find out right now.”

It was not immediately clear why Espada and Monserrate suddenly defected; however it is known both men are under investigation by the authorities. New York State Attorney General Andrew Cuomo’s office is investigating a health care agency, Soundview HealthCare Network that Espada ran until recently and Monserrate is under indictment on felony assault charges stemming from an attack in March on his companion.

It was also not immediately evident whether the marriage equality legislation played any role in the leadership dispute, but it has been source of contention among Senate Democrats recently. Senator Rubén Díaz Jr., a Democrat from the Bronx, has been outspoken in his insistence that the legislation allowing gay and lesbian couples to marry not be allowed to come to a vote. Some had speculated he might leave the Democratic Party if Mr. Smith were to allow a vote, however Diaz did not join Mr. Espada and Mr. Monserrate in the leadership vote.

If Republicans are indeed back in control, it seems very unlikely that a Republican-controlled NY Senate will allow the marriage bill, that has already been approved by the New York State Assembly to come up for a vote before the current legislative session ends on June 22^nd.

Please see the related article in the New York Times: Republicans seize Control of Senate.

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